Hey Everybody!
My wife and I are going out on New Year's Eve and plan to get a room, have some (maybe a lot) of alcohol, and a whole bunch of sex.
We've got dildos, cock rings, slippery stuff, etc. I'm looking for new ideas that we haven't tried.
Can anyone help?
We've tried those sex board games. Some are good, but some require too much thought.
I'm thinking about taking the video camera and digital camera and filming and taking pictures. We'll take our sex toys, but are there other good sex toys that we should try? Suggestions?
What about fruit? We've tried strawberries and grapes before. And whipped cream in the spray can.
We need help to make this a wild and crazy night.
Help!!!
Often just a change of scenery is more than enough to revitalize a night of passion.
With this in mind, my suggestion is to go and rent the room before you take her to it. Buy some rose petals and lay them out in a line from the door to the bed and then up on it ending at the pillow where she will find a mint or other sweet that you have placed on her pillow--perhaps next to a single long stem rose.
If the room has a bathtub, fill it with warm water and have a candle or night light for effect. Undress her and help her into the water where she will sit in front of you between your legs. You can then whisper sweet nothings in her ear, caress her and keep her body warm by drizzling warm water over her shoulders from a washcloth or cup. When you want to leave, stand her under the shower and bathe her using soap and only your hands. (Do not get any soap in her vagina!)
She can reciprocate to her heart's content, also. When you step out of the tub pat each other dry using two bath towels. Do not rub. Lead or carry her to the bed. If you want to follow this with a general massage that later transitions into an erotic massage, then you know what to do....
A New Year's toast is fine, however, if you want to maximize your evening's pleasure, keep the drinking to a minimum.
This is one beginning scenario. Anybody else want to add some ideas or an alternative to this?
Your post sounds like what my wife and I did for our anniversary a couple years ago... it was awesome.
Just how open-minded and adventurous are you?
maybe try blindfolds along with docs advise maybe
Perhaps you could take a goat with you? (Sorry, only 'kidding'.)
When we are preparing for sex we lay our toys and lubes out on the bed so they are easy to get to. We love our toys. The ones we use during intercourse are: Trojan Vibrating Ring, Penthouse Golden Egg and Pocket Rocket. The Trojan Vibrating Ring fits on the penis and vibrates the clitoris during intercourse. My DW says there is nothing like a real dick that vibrates. The Penthouse Egg can be used on the clitoris or inside the vagina during intercourse. My wife loves to insert it in her and then I put my dick in and we f**k with it vibrating inside. Feel great on my dick during intercourse. We both have wild orgasms. The Pocket Rocket is great for stimulating the clitoris or the penis during intercourse. We have a rabbit type vibrator(Purple Titan) that my DW uses when we masturbate together. I love to watch her cum while using it. We have 3 vibrating dildos(2 jelly and 1 black rubber) that she also uses during mutual masturbation. We fantasize that we are having a threesome. We have some anal toys(Spectragels Anal Tool, Anal T, Anal E-Z Bend and Anal Beads)that DW uses to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Our favorite lubricant is Wet Original and for anal we use Wet Platinum. We watch group sex DVD'S while using toys. Toys are hot!!!
Here are some true ideas from our sex life.
After 42 years of marriage my wife loves kinky sex as much as ever and I love it too. Usually we orgasm from intercourse about twice a week and the other times we orgasm either from oral sex or from mutual masterbation.
Our most recent intercourse session began with us both showering. As I was drying off, she began to trim her pubic hair as I watched(I love to watch). Then I shaved some of my hair with my Norelco razor. We went to bed and put on a group sex DVD and began light mutual masturbation. We kissed and told each other how much we loved each other. As we lay there masturbating we fantisized how it would be to do the things that they were doing in the video. Then we got to the scene where two couples were having hot sex together-touching and rubbing each other as well as having oral sex and swaping intercourse partners. My wife began masturbating faster and she was about to cum when I went down on her-tonguing and licking her clitoris. She had a tremendous orgasm. We then began deep kissing as I shared her juices with her with my penis in her vagina in the missionary position-she loves the taste as do I. Then I withdrew and put our Trojan Vibrating Ring on my dick. We continued ****ing in the spoon position so that we could both see the video. I pushed my dick deep inside her as we told each other how good it felt. She love the vibrating ring. After a few minutes we changed to doggy. It wasn't long before we were both cumming-what an orgasm!!! Then we lay side by side with my dick still in her. I withdrew my cum-covered dick and she licked the cum off. By then I was getting soft and we thanked each other for a great time and went off to sleep.
Then there's always the 'invitig others to play with you two' thing. *EG*
i dont know how to convence my guy to use sex toys...have fun!
I think nipple clamps are amazing.
You can get ones that have a thick rubber covering and can adjust between extreme pain to a light pressure.
Its really hot to be attached to each other by the nipples during sex.
how about role play " strangers " at the bar and you start chatting her up etc and want to have a quicky with the risk of being caught ! we love them sort !