its pretty simple. for me at least it feels the best when my girl uses warming lubricant. she grabs me firmly and moves up and down while pointing me towards the ceiling(if we are lying down). its kinda hard to get a handjob wrong but im sure he will tell u what feels good and what hurts.

This is one of the most answered questions I respond to. You will find much information on the topic if you look around.

What I recommend is that you encourage him to masturbate so you can watch how he does it and get a sense of what is required. Next, have him guide your hands for a few sessions until you learn to mimic his movements, rhythm, and pressres--and, learn where his hotspots are.

The same goes for you with him. Show him how you masturbate and then take his hand/fingers, and guide his movements a few times until he gets the hang of how to do what you do.

We all understand the basic mechanics involved in stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris; however, there is more that I call the "Fine Art". It is the unique technique that is specific to each of us that is just a bit different than how someone else will stimulate him/her-self. If we are off the mark too far either an orgasm will not happen or if it does it will be less than expected. So, this is why it is important to be able to duplicate what each of us does.

Remember, that making love is not what we do to each other, rather, what we do with and for each other. Each of us is responsible for our own orgasms, we do not give them away. All any of us can hope to do is to help our partner achieve his/her own. The best way is to do it their way.

Also have a towl handy so he won't shoot it across the room.I like the lube's that have the warming sensation to them.

Is a hangjob the same as a handjob, or is it something that involves ropes?

Yeah, I like those sort of lubes too. There is one that has menthol in it, gives a great hot and cold sensation. You know, the same effect that you get on your tongue when you suck on a menthol lozenge.

> Is a hangjob the same as a handjob, or is it something that involves ropes?

My guess is that for Sadaam Hussein he experienced a rope at someone's hand, first, and then a hangjob second!

LOL OMG ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!

good one doc i love it. im glad the bastard is dead.

I would never laugh at the death of another person, but I won't shed a tear for him.

well i will when he helped those that killed thousands of innocent lives. honestly his being hung was a mercy and while u may not laugh i will.

sorry getting off topic.