> I've actually taken the advice of some older members here.
I currently hang around a site for teens, and I participate in the advice/puberty/ask sections there. I still have a lot to learn and I certainly was no wizard back then.

Are you a wizard now?

well make sure your washed, and cleanly shaven or trimmed, or not if you prefer it.
relax its not a big deal, it is totally fine!
hes clearly comfortable about doing this so just calm down..
yes, its totally ok!! well you stated that your not ready yet, so nothing. just sit back and enjoy lol

you should only do something when your comfortable not give it because you recieved it.

if he wasnt ok with it he would have said something right?
so good luck! and post backk :)

Like Emily said, just make sure you are washed and clean, relax and enjoy the ride, I'm sure you will :)

Its only fine to go down on him if you want to do it. Only you will know if you are ready. Don't let him talk you into it if you don't want to do it.

Take a deep breath, relax, and do whatever you want to do when and how you want to do it. Sex is great. Pleasure is good for you so give yourself permission to enjoy it all. Be willing to try everything three times before making up your mind. The reason you went with a more experienced partner was to learn wasn't it? So get out there and learn.

cyclefreak is right, i'm a guy and i go down on my gf almost every time we have sex. only very rarely does she do the same for me. it's not a problem for me or her, she does it when she feels comfortable with it. however, some guys may say it's no big deal, and then try to force it. or atleast make you feel guilty about receiveing oral but not giving it. now, i'm not saying that this guy is like that, but some are.

> i am new at any of this. I am dating guy who is exparienced, he understands my situation and is taking his time. But he wants to go down on me. Even though i think i would like that i don't think i am ready to do same for him. He says its fine. Is it fine?

But of course!
You probably will want to do this at some point in the future as your confidence in self and in the relationship broadens and deepens; however, even when this time arrives and you do not wish to do this then he will have to live with your decision.

> what else can i do for him?

Have a look at the various ways to stimulate his penis as presented in this definitive website on male masturbation:

http://jackinworld.com/sitemap.html

Read both the How To and the Expert sections for interesting variations on the mechanics then select one or two and try them on him. If he responds favorably, try one or two others.

Speaking of which, we all understand the basic mechanics involved in stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris; however, there is more to this that I call the "Fine Art". After learning to masturbate each of us quickly develops a technique that is unique and specific to each of us. It is this specific technique each of us must learn in order to help our partner climax easily. Please read the following Sticky post in the NEW TO SEX forum:

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

> do i need to do anything to prepare for it?

Please clarify which "it" concerns you. Do you want information on how to prepare to pleasure him with your mouth, lips, and tongue; or, are you asking about how to prepare yourself to receive this pleasure?

just make sure your clean and stuff,
and trust me, guys have no problem asking for what they want, so im sure hejust wants to help you experianceyour firsts.
enjoy it.