I'm sure you've seen this topic a million times, but I'm kind of looking for quick advice. I've never had an orgasm during sex, the only ones I've ever had were a result of my own clitoral stimulation. In fact, penetration does next to nothing for me. Is there anyway I can train myself, or anything I can do, to enjoy penetration and use of my G-spot more?
Wed, 08/10/2005 - 19:02
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Never had one..
Yes, we have; about once a week. Look around the site and you will find all sorts of interesting facts.
25% of all women never experience orgasms. 50% do not reach orgasm through penile thrusting alone, but need a bit additional with oral or digital help. The best training is masturbation. Be happy you have any but get your boyfriend to help. In short term relationships these hurdles are rarely overcome. It requires trust and understanding to work on this.
I am a person who has to have the clitoral action to get off. I would say explore you and learn what you like and what works. Use that self knowledge of your body to help your partner make you happy and sastified~
Well, I'm not sure there's much you can do, I can however tell you this. You are not alone. Lots of women, and I do mean lots, cannot reach an orgasm from penetration alone. Most need some kind of clitoral stimulation whether it be themselves doing it or their partner.