I've only tried to have sex once. Three months ago I tried with a guy whom I'm inlove with and I was really comfortable but for some reason it just wouldn't go in. I don't know if it was because his penis was too large but we tried plenty of times that day. The head did go in but that's as far as it went and he stopped because he was afraid of hurting me. Was your first time ever like this?:confused:
Mon, 02/19/2007 - 02:11
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Never a first time?
You do have a hymen and you most likely are not relaxed so of course he only got as far as the head. Deep breaths slowly, relax and try it again. Sex gets better the more you practice it.
Please be responsible and use both birth control and condoms. A little lubricant would'nt hurt either if it agrees with the condoms.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;167819]You do have a hymen and you most likely are not relaxed so of course he only got as far as the head. Deep breaths slowly, relax and try it again. Sex gets better the more you practice it.
Please be responsible and use both birth control and condoms. A little lubricant would'nt hurt either if it agrees with the condoms.[/QUOTE]
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Thanks for the advice kitten!!
I'll make sure to be relaxed next time.
I guess I was afraid of losing it.
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dont worry that exactly what happened to me on my first...for me we tried to relax more by just fooling around, kissing, touching eachother before the actual sexual intercourse. I found it made me more at ease. I thought about the gush of blood that might happen when we first attempt...It turns out I had nothing to worry about.