I'm in need of some quick tips. A girl I've been seeing for a couple months is ready to have sex, but she doesn't want to "give herself to me" or make love to me or whatever, even though we like eachother very much and are very close, she just wants to have some sex. I've had sex with one girl in the past and fooled around with a couple more, and she had sex every day for a year with her last boyfriend. She doesn't know I'm pretty inexperienced and worried about this. She's very assertive and fearless, and I'm passive and unconfident sometimes. She is going to expect me to take the lead and give her a good youknowhat, but I'm afraid I'll do something wrong in the transition between kissing and sex, I don't know if I should just rip her clothes off (which she would love, but I don't know if I could do that properly) or take it slow so she has time to get wet and ready. What would be my best bet? I sense I need to do the transition fast and not sit there and rub her passionately and kiss her slowly and all that. I only have less than a week until when we are scheduled to do this. What would you suggest? Thanks much.