i had my first time the other week at 23 years of age, it was alright besides the sloppy drunkeness, i seen the same person on the weekend, have some questions that need answering.
1. after an hour she said that she couldn't take any more or else she wouldn't be able to walk or sit down for the week. LOL.
i know that i should be asking her but
am i hurting her? is it my fault, could i be going to hard? she seems to enjoy it right up to that point.
2. does any women get offened if a guy doesn't come, in the 2 experiences i've had i still have yet to come.
yeah thats how it made me feel both times when i found out that she didn't come, but i haven't told her that i didn't, not that i can remember of.
Offensive when a guy doesn't cum? hm... depends how he lets you know. When i first gave my boyfriend a BJ, he didn't cum, and that kind of dashed my spirits, and made me sort of apprensive to try again, but he completly reassured me that it wasnt that it didn;t feel amazing, it was probably that he had been drinking a little that night. If a guy just tells a girl to stop what shes doing and that he's not going to cum no matter how much she does it, it is kind of depressing and offensive. It's all in the way you tell her.
shadowy
how wet can one really get? if thats not wet enough how wet does one have to be for it to be comfortable? i know everybody is different.
if it seems if i am being defensive, i think thats how my personality comes across on the board which is totally not me.
yeah i found that out last night i asked her, it seems that it doesn't matter how wet you think she is its still not wet enough.
also stress nd tiredness play a mjor part in that role to i guess.
well am off to work will be asking for more answers later.
thanks for the advice
laki
Well, let me be less diplomatic. You may think she was still wet as can be but the lubrication does break down. I have told men that I am getting sore to get it over with; I have also faked orgasm to make him happy and get him off me.
My guess is that there are very few of us who enjoy getting pounded away in for an hour. I have been left after a sex marathon weekend (many years ago) finding walking or sitting uncomfortable for a couple days. Are you "hurting" her? Not really but you are making her uncomfortable. Try holding your legs in that position for an hour and see what your hips feel like. Rub the inside of your cheek for an hour and see how it feels.
You seem more ready to argue about this than to learn.
even without the alcohol it was the same,
as for the lube she was still wet as a slippery dip after the hour. LOL
After an hour, most of us would be sore! The lubrication would be all gone and it would be getting time to move our hips. Before that point, I, for one, would be taking other measures.
You will see posts on this board concerning lack of ejaculation. If I do not have an orgasm, I want my partner to accept that it is not his fault. If he does not have an orgasm, I am no less a woman for it.
I have a stronmg suspicion that the sloppy drunkennes was a major factor. Alcohol is one of the greatest sexual suppressants (sometimes substitute) know to humankind.