so theres this girl and shes some girl ive been always wanting to get with and have sex with but when i finally had a chance..and we did it,i came in less than a minute. it was so embaressing...
so days we meet up again and then im arousing her and i thought maybe the first time wasnt good let me try to make it up this time...and im great with my fingers and mouth; she was all over the place while i was doing my thing; and when it came down to sex; she just wasnt feeling it. she did not have any type of facial experience she wasnt into it! she even told me my fingering was better than me inside of her...and this has been a major issue for me and i dont know what to do...her previous was a man with a 5 and 1/2 inch and im only...5 is it a size matter??
I really wanna know what to do; and sometimes i feel like i gotta cum rather quickyl when im inside of her. but my goal is to make her love it and feel it.
Okay - there are three places you have to know - the clitoris, the G-Spot and the posterior fornix and YES, 5 inches is enough. Learn how to stimulate all three and also learn how to know where your penis is in relation to her when you're inside of her. Focus your mind upon learning what works for her and you should last longer. Also, before she even arrives, masturbate and orgasm. This should cool your jets somewhat and help you focus later.
Being new, you may want to review the 'sticky posts' on this subject in the Index.
ive checked up on the stickies but its kinda hard to comprehend sometimes; im more into a opinionated answer from people.
thanks for the info evilkitten; ill keep that in mind.
but is there anything that i should be doing to stimulate her?
See the sticky posts: Body Worship and The Program.
Trust me - it isn't all THAT hard.
no size matter mate
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[QUOTE=LoveHate;206483]so theres this girl and shes some girl ive been always wanting to get with and have sex with but when i finally had a chance..and we did it,i came in less than a minute. it was so embaressing...
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">YUP! Typical for guys up to their mid twenties. The condition is called Premature Ejaculation and occurs within the first minute or so of penetration.[/COLOR]
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
so days we meet up again and then im arousing her and i thought maybe the first time wasnt good let me try to make it up this time...and im great with my fingers and mouth; she was all over the place while i was doing my thing; and when it came down to sex; she just wasnt feeling it. she did not have any type of facial experience she wasnt into it! she even told me my fingering was better than me inside of her...and this has been a major issue for me and i dont know what to do...
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">Very few sexual positions provide the continuous and ongoing friction required by placing her vulva and its pieces-parts in close contact with your pubic bone and adjoining surfaces. So, what a wise, caring, skillful, compassionate, lover will do is to reach around and finger her clitoris, labia, and parts while stroking away.
And, in addition, said skilled, caring, knowledgeable, lover will also help her have one or more orgasms before intercourse--and after, if it is her desire. [/COLOR]
her previous was a man with a 5 and 1/2 inch and im only...5 is it a size matter??
For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)
I really wanna know what to do; and sometimes i feel like i gotta cum rather quickyl when im inside of her. but my goal is to make her love it and feel it.
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">Please read thru the Index. There are many informative articles that will give you the opinionated and specific answers that one of these replies might also provide.
If one or the other of you have questions while reading the various articles, or after, please do not hesitate to ask. While every effort was made to make each point clear, it is understood that not everything will be understood without further clarification--think nothing of it. We're all here to help and pay it forward![/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
P.S. I really do recommend that the two of you read each of the articles listed in the Index. You will learn more than you think and will be better educated overall, than if you just pick and choose by using a hit or miss process of selection.
Haha! Don't worry a lot of guys starting out are quick to ejaculate. They are so excited they finally are "doing it" that they get caught up in the moment forgetting about the girl and just let go. Trust me, my first time, my boyfriend did the same thing... I patted his back and said thanks... he was humiliated, but it's to be expected. And, for the first few times you do have sex, you will probably cum pretty quickly. To get stamina it will take practice! Eventually you will be holding it like a pro even though you know your ready. Remember, it takes a while sometimes for the girl and if it doesnt last long enough it won't happen for her either. Just practice, you will eventually learn! :)
Very, very common and your g/f is not too sensitive to your feelings. As a young woman, I usually jacked male partners off during foreplay. Slowed them down all around and got me what I wanted.
There is a lot more for a woman to feel during foreplay than during actual penetration and thrusting. There are no nerve endings in the vagina, so what we feel is actually pressure on the outside and on surrounding internal tissues. Some positions are better for some. Five inches is plenty to get it daone - with a woman who has any empathy and is willing to have you go again.