My girlfriend and I have lots of fun in the bedroom. We have surrounded a range from trying many positions including tantra, as well as having sex in risky areas. She is very submissive and time to time switches to the dominant "watch me" role. She has been having a fantasy relating to me having complete control and almost near a rape fantasy. I am new to this and was looking for advice and some suggestions of what to do.
So far the things we have tried in this region is we have velcro cuffs and a blindfold. We have played around with these in several ways and done some light spanking. I feel like I would know the basics of the dominant role, but I'm also an engineer and like to have some sort of a plan =p. Any information would be great and thank you for your time and attention.
Hey! Bondage makes me drool. Please search the forum on this very subject, read what has already been discussed and when you have a better idea of what you want to try and do or what you want to ask I and others would be elated to explore the subject.
make sure you have a saftey word set, even if it's just her or you being lightly restrained (just hands) there has to be a saftey word. also, to creat a plan sit down and think of what you want to do and write down everything that you see would be needed. is she resrained? if so to what degree and by what? is she gaged? (if that is so you will need something to replace the saftey word while she is gagged, any bondage sitets should have ideas for this. take what you see and run with it, will you preform oral will she preform it on you? if you are going to suprise her with this "night of bondage" think of a two olevel saftey word such as amber for i'm reaching my limits and red for stop everything and let me go. if this is going to be something you plan with her then you should talk to her and see if there is anything that she wants to try. good luck to ya!