Alright, so, first things first. I am new here. Like, I found this site ten mnutes ago. So, don't flame me that much, please.
Ok, this girl that I kind of "know" came to my house asking for my brother. She isn't his gf or anything like that, and I thought she was decently hot. I told her no, and asked if she wanted to come in and watch some TV or something. She said sure, and came in, and, we watched TV.
Well, for the first ten minutes.
Before I knew it, BOOM, it was like she exploded and became and freakishly hot animal. She was clawing at my clothes and crushing me into the couch. I pushed her off long enough to ask her name before she started in again. Well, I HAVE to see her again, that was the first time I had ever done anything like that with anyone before. I mean, I am still a virgin, and I don't even know who she is.
So, my question is this, is it alright to lose your virginity during, well, whatever it is we were doing? Because, I don't know if leaving water boiling was a good thing, or a bad thing that had happened right there, giving me an escape route to think.
Oh, and, btw, I still don't know her name.
Thu, 07/28/2005 - 07:36
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Need some help
Lol, thanks
Beautiful. By the way welcome to the board. Baha I've always wanted to say that!
My brother is 16. We met to "hang out" and she started to paw at my arm as we were walking, then pawed at something else. Before I knew it, we were at it again, but, this time it was different. Everything you guys have said kept in my head. I realized it wasn't what I wanted.
So, at the end, my heart was larger then my penis.
You've struck it righ, my friend. Your situation was a little odd, I agree. and I think you did the right thing.
but now it's time for some fun
just be safe.
How old is your bro if you dont mind me asking?
Well basically sounds like she is just looking for a good time w/ no strings attached I guess you could say.
Like Tease said, its up to you. If you feel comfortable losing your virginity that way, then by all means. If not then let her know you aren't into being friends w/ "benefits" but if she wants to be friends and maybe go from there... then thats cool.
I asked him about the whole benifits thing, and he said he doesn't know what that means, but she was "cool" and never tried anything like she did on me.
Do whatever you feel you want to really.
I lost my virginity to my friend. He's still my friend and we still fool around from time to time. But I also knew that he was "the one" I wanted to lose it to.
Other people choose to date people before they lose their virginity. Some wait till marriage. Some don't care and just lose it randomly. It's all just a matter of choice and whether or not you feel as if you're ready.
So did you talk to your bro about this chick?
Maybe he has some insight as to who the hell she is and what her deal is.
I mean is he her friend w/ benefits as well?
Info you really want to find out lol.
Exactly what I told her when she showed up today. So, now, she wants to be just "friends" with benifits. Uh, I just said "Sure" to get her the hell away.
What did I agree to?
Oh, and I found out her name, just in case you were wondering.
(EDIT- Missed something, we are both 15)
She sounds a little freaky to me.
I mean to come visit your bro and then start grabbing all up on you, but thats just me.
How old is this girl and you? does she have no consideration or what??
I'd steer clear of her, she sounds a little on the crazy side to me.
I mean you dont have to wait to get married but I'd at least want my first to be w/ someone I cared about and at least knew there name!
Yea you might get attached but from the way she sounds, she is definetly not a one man kind of woman
I know, it's just, do I really want my first time to be with someone I don't even know? That, and, I don't know if I am going to get emotionally attatched to her if we "do the deed", if you are hearing what I am peeping into your lobes.
Do whatever you feel like man there are consequences and risks about sex but I personally think it's worth the fun. If your worried about disease go to walk in doctor places(shut up I don't know what it's called) and get some blood tests. Remember it's not just intercourse but oral sex can lead to gaining STD's too. Whatever your into just talk to her about it cause it seems to me she just wants some sex but once again it's all your choice man I'm just giving suggestions.