Hi,

I've been sexual active for as long as I can remember (at least 5 years since I was twelve). But up until this summer I had only been with guys.

Now I'm engaged to a girl I truly love and I want to be able to please her to the point that she's not only satisfied, but I wanna do such a good job that no one else can ever come close (not that she'd ever be with anyone else but you get the point).

I've read and re-read the Pleasing Women section on this site from beginning to end multiple times as well as watched/read dirty movies/stories (before I met her of course) but since we live so far away and only get to be together every 4-5 months I was wondering if maybe someone could give me some pointers that are kinda simple so that I'm not sitting on this site cramming the night before I go see her next time, trying to remember everything.

Again, she's my first and only girl since I switched from guys and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. And I want to be able to please her. I honestly don't care about getting any. Hell, I'll sit there and finger her or lick her for an hour just to pleasure her and not expect anything in return (I've done it before).

So yeah, there's my sob story. Any tips that are kinda easy to memorize are appreciated but if you know some complicated ones that get good results I'll read them to.

Thanks in advance (I hope).

PS: My girl was a virgin the first time we were together meaning that if we do last forever like we're hoping to I'll be the only guy she'll have ever slept with. Is that going to have any effect on her or my ability to please her; either in the near future or in the long run?