erm well basically without beating round the bush, i have an erection problem..... but not in that i cant get one, its just that recently i get aroused literally over everything, my Friends (female) cant even sit on my lap without me getting an erection.
If anyone has had this problem or knows any methods on how to stop this from happening so much then please reply.
Thanks in advance Buzz Lightyear.
> i have an erection problem..... but not in that i cant get one, its just that recently i get aroused literally over everything
Welcome to the onset of manhood! Raging hormones and the fact that you probably have more of them than blood in your veins means that at times even a tree trunk will turn you on--almost anything and everything, from randy thoughts, fantasies, pictures of models in ads and catalogs, manequins (dressed or not), sounds, smells, touch, the sight of a pretty girl across the room, any and all will cause an erection. For the next few decades you will experience lots of "Spontaneous Erections" that seem to happen for no reason at all. Even when you know why you are having an erection, you will be powerless to stop it. Your penis just seems to have a mind of its own.
Most teens new to the experience worry that erections will be detected by people around them. Possibly, although very unlikely; after all, who stares at a guy's fly? OK, so you have an erection and it pushes your trousers out. Big deal, just slip your hand inside one of your front pockets and reposition your erect penis so that it is centered beneath your fly and pointed upward. The wrinkles in your fly will help obscure the erection.
If you are wearing tight fitting underware, your penis will remain in place for a long time so that as erections come and go, your penis will expand and contract under the fly and nobody will know.
> my Friends (female) cant even sit on my lap without me getting an erection.
I guess you will have to choose carefully which of your friends sits on your lap. ;) Now if she is a girlfriend, then maybe bumping up against your "bump" will bring a wry, knowing, little grin to her face as she reflects upon the power she has over your responses.
Spontaneous Erections and those that just appear from external sensory inputs as discussed, above, will be with a guy from puberty to middle age. They will decrease in frequency with age, although if you are a teen you can expect to be distracted by them for ten to twenty more years, minimum.
Rather than worry or be concerned about them, just know that all this is a normal part of a guy's manhood and embrace them. After all, one of the side benefits is in letting a girl detect an erection and her secretly knowing that she is the cause. Oh joy! Oh rapture! Oh jubulation.
apparently when my boyfriend and i first started dating he had this same problem - i was totally oblivious because i wasn't really thinking about it until he told me later haha
unless she's looking for it or you're wearing super thin bottoms i dont think the girls are noticing much - and hopefully they're nice enought to not say anything if they do notice
the problem will pass eventually
Thanks again for your help, you dont understand how much it helps to talk to someone, well actually you probably do.
I can definately see the good side of it, in that my "freinds" will know that they are the cause but personally i think if everytime i brushed against my freind and they got an erection surely that would seem a little how could i say, like desperate but not quite if you get what i mean lol.
well anyway thanks again for your help i really apretiate it.... and if you ever need help with anything to do with personalising your own clothes for really cheap, or on turntablism, dont hesitate to ask lol.
Thanks....