I'd greatly appreciate anyone's help, as I currently use online dating, but a problem I have, is some women contacted who are openly sexual, write to say (and may even say so, either to play hard to get or to make males qualify themselves) that if I were to meet and have sex with them, to describe in writing what I'd most would like doing to and with them sexually. In the times I've done this, I've bombed rather badly at it, as they write back to say what I wrote was extremely lame and tame and that they want descriptions that are much rougher, hardcore, more X rated and more explicit, so say I'll have to try a lot better if they expect to meet me in person.

What's frustrating, is there surprisingly isn't much on the net I can use to get good ideas and inspiration from, for this type of writing. Someone said to go to the Literotica.com site, that's probably the best site on the internet for fictional erotica material. It is a great erotic fiction site, but the fictional erotica stories on there are just far too long and have to do with fictional settings (like being in a doctor's office for example, rather than at home). I need non-fictional material that's maybe 300 – 400 words longs max (not 20 000 words long), as these women aren't asking for fictional erotic stories set outside a house or bedroom setting. They want nonfiction descriptions and accounts, so Literotica isn't that helpful unfortunately.

I also came across the www.asexstories.com site, but it’s very poorly organised Like if you want to find their highest rated erotic fiction stories that have been rated 8, 9 or 10 by readers, they're not in the one place under their number rating, but are annoyingly all over the place.