Guys,
I posted a post a few months ago about the fact the I am a virgin and first time I tried to have sex with my girlfriend and for some reason every tried I tried putting my penis in her vagina it kept falling out. So Dr. Lin recommended that I needed to get harder and stay harder and she said that I might even consider taking erectile dysfunction field. Well I saw a product on herballove.com and its called Power-E which I am really looking into getting. Just wondering if this is a good idea and the fact that I am taking it so early in my life is it going to have negative impact on my sex life when I get older thanks. I need to know this because I am trying to take this pill and get better by valentines day. Thanks I appreciate it.
Read the fine print at the bottom of that site to find the proper advice: See Your Doctor.
Some website that tries to sell you a product is not a good source for unbiased medical information about that product and whether or not it is appropriate for your personal needs.
Thanks a lot guys it definitely helps. I definietely think nerves are problem as it is my first time.
but a herbal remedy such as the one i am looking at...shouldn't hurt right i mean what do i have to lose i doubt it has any really negative side effects as its herbal
[quote=rookie92183]...but a herbal remedy such as the one i am looking at...shouldn't hurt right i mean what do i have to lose i doubt it has any really negative side effects as its herbal[/quote]
And just where do you think drugs come from? Most drugs are first developed from plants, then chemically synthesized for mass production. If anything, I would think herbal medicines to have stronger effects than their sythesized counterparts. e.g. natural sources of vitamins and minerals are better absorbed and used by the body than bottled ones. Or there could be no observable effect at all.
Be wary of taking any form of drug. Anything can have unwanted side effects.
As the big old sign posted in my Gyno's office says, most people fail to report herbal remedies/drugs to their doctor. Since it's "herbal" or a "vitamin", they see it as nothing harmful and everything will be ok. They are a drug. They have affects on you in some way whether you really feel them or not and with some medications, they do not mix.
I was recently taking a medication where I couldn't have iron within 2 hours of the pill, whether it was a vitamin or something like milk. It had a fair chance of making the pill I was taking less effective.
So, that being said, even though it's a vitamin or an herbal product, again, it doesn't mix well with other things sometimes. It is a medication of some sort and should be treated as one.
Moreover, herbal remedies while often valid, have results that vary by individual. I've heard reports that many reputed herbs claimed to be effective for ED or to simply boost an unencumbered ability don't really work. Buyer be ware.
> I tried to have sex with my girlfriend and for some reason every tried I tried putting my penis in her vagina it kept falling out.
Do you maintain an erection or do you become flaccid thus falling out?
Anxiety is a major contributor of dysfunction. If this is the case with you, try relaxing. A case of "nerves" can keep a guy from achieving or maintaining a good quality erection as well as from achieving an orgasm.
I believe what will improve your situation is to consciously make the decision to stop worrying about perfection and to simply go with the flow and enjoy your relationship. Shucks, flubs happen, and making love the first few times is rarely a perfect experience, albeit enjoyable. With experience comes confidence and this is what I predict is lacking. My advice is to "make love" emotionally from the heart and demonstrate your love, physically, and if things don't happen exactly as planned, so what. Do not show your disappointment or dwell upon it. We want to know that we are loved and appreciated so when a partner dwells upon disappointment it ruins the moment. In addition, worrying about some failure exaserbates a case of Performance Anxiety often making matters worse. Teach each other, explore, and learn together and build a successful sexual relationship over time. Adopt these things and your Valentine will be happy even if your performance is not quite as "perfect" as you would like. It will be if you just ease up and give it time and experience.