so me and my girlfriend were kissing and we are both virgins and i take her pants off and finger her. how do i tell if im doing this right, it was her first time to have this done and my first time to do it. when ever i just even start to touch her she like shakes uncontrollably and says its very intense then when i only use 1 finger up in her she appears to really like it. she shakes all the time and starts to breath heavy and then i make circle motions up in her with one finger. she starts to say "oh god" and make what i think are orgasiming noises but im not sure.
when she tells me to stop she just sits there staring at the ceiling and breathing hard for several minutes and cant even talk.
what is the shaking a sign of? she doesnt even seem to need any clit stimulation. then after she gets up she always has to go to the bathroom and says that some white stuff comes out of her. please just tell me if this is sign of a orgasim. she really really seems to enjoy it but im not sure
this one time has made her go from wanting to wait to have sex to wanting to jump on me all the time and now wants to have sex, but i tell her no because i dont want her to just be caught up in the moment and regret it in the morning
Ask her. It sounds like she was enjoying it and that is all that is necessary at this point. Whether or not you are pushing her or holding her back, I would recommend that you two have some protection available - condoms and spermicidal jelly - when you are together.
Yep, every thing you said points to that what ever you are doing she is in to it, so keep doing it, but feel free to ask. Do not ask what to do, just doit and ask her if she likes it or not and then move on to something else. I think that exploring is the best thing of a relationship. Like Brandye said, if you guys decide to have sex, use condoms, that way you will not have nothing to worry about.