please don't double post it causes confusion

tantric massage and sex magic - both related to total body orgasm, hot wax, kinbaku - a more intense physical/mental/spiritual approach to bondage also known as shibari or Japanese bondage, flogging, whipping, caning, objectification...these are a few of the things we enjoy at my home.

[QUOTE=kmcurious;265751]. Not too many people have advice on here :(

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In saying that you have to remember that... "One persons Kink is the norm for another":D
So really you need to just use your imagination :D

NO ADVICE?!?!

Okay so you're blind and having someone else read this to you and they skipped over every single other post on this website.

We have given an answer to this question about 2,094,875,692,842 times and find it incredibly BORING as well as SAD. Poor people so bad at sex that they have become bored with it and have to running off into hot wax, needles, cupping, fireplay etc to get their jaded little minds into the thrill. YES I am being insulting and slamming a brick upside your head - trying to get you to see sense and actually use your brain because that's where sex 'happens'.

Sex for you is just 'insert tab A into slot B' - whereas sex for those like me is a "glorious conflagration of souls joyously reaffirming life itself' (picutre an atomic mushroom cloud here) without anything even remotely kinky etc in it. No toys, no roleplay, no costumes, no lingerie, no oil, no nothing more than completely unbridled passion and no holds barred wild rampant skin on skin SEX!

So save your snarky "Not too many people have advice on here" for those like yourself who can't be bothered to READ the MANY articles in the Index.

Sex is very much like a drug, even for me whose sex life may be tame and boring by some peoples standards. Just like drugs, some people experienment and decide that drugs don't do much for them and don't become users, while others are completly hooked by the feelings a drug fix causes, become addicted then require addititional fixes and stronger drugs to get the same level of "high" they want to experience. I'm not a kinky person, nor am I a risk taker.
This particular couple appears to be experimental and wishes to push boundaries in order to keep passion and appeal to their relationship. I wonder if it's her responsibilty to keep comming up with ideas or if she's really into kinky as much as she claims to be since allot of what she's got listed didn't produce rocking results? Does she have something to proove? I feel kind of sorry for "kinky" people. There is always the likelyhood that the "kink" will loose it's effect then, like a drug addict, they are on yet another persuit of the next harsher, stronger fix to get them off.

how about holding out on each other and just teasing and making lewd comments and letting the excitement build knowing that you won't have sex for a certain amount of time so that when you do, it's like it's all new again .... try for at least a month

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So I have been searching through tons of other peoples advice on new or kinky stuff and finding it hard to read something we have done or tried. So, here's my list of a few of the items that get suggested frequently and we need something different!

10 - [SIZE="4">dog[/SIZE] - he watched she didn't like it - didn't work out so great
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umm, what do you mean by dog?

Haha weasel I was thinking the exact same thing.

I have a feeling she means exactly what we are both thinking...

lol she could mean dogging?
or maybe she means she done the dog lol

Wait I have heard of dogging before. Isn't that like voyeurism? Dang now I gotta go look this up before I go to sleep or it will drive me nuts!

The OP sounds more like an adrenaline junkie. She is pushing the boundaries and even though she enjoys certain things, she wants to try what is bigger and better. Sure cliff diving was fun, now let's go sky diving. We climbed yosemite assisted. Now let's do it without any gear at all.

OP I am curious though. Are you looking for new ideas out of boredom or because you just constantly want to push the boundaries?

or the fun may just simply be in trying something new ... I've had dozens of hobbies in my life and while they have all been fun and I enjoyed seeking them out, it was still enjoyable going out and trying something new, some hobbies lasted longer than others, some I still enjoy, some were just fads

The whole thing is rather pointless as it seems more about "being freaky" than about actually enjoying her partner.
Bedpost notching.

Yes EEK,icompletely agree with you.

> 1 - role playing - done it, do it, love it

What scripts or roles did you do?

Just imagine how startling it would be if after a few more years of freaky freaky her hubby comes out with - "ya know, hun, can't we just make love?"