I am seeing the most amazing man ever. He is smoking hot, with a killer body, and is also one of the most intelligent, funny, sensitive, caring men I have ever met in my life. I am crazy about him and he is crazy about me. The problem? Our sex life, or lack there-of. We make out and are very affectionate, we spend the night together but no sex. He has some sort of preformance anxiety and tells me that it is difficult to get "the first few times out of the way." I told him that I don't care and that I just want to be with him, but he doesn't seem to be able to or want to f*** me. I am so attracted to him it is hard for me not to attack him all the time. I want to be having wild sex with him. I want to seduce him but I don't want to make the problem worse by pressuring him about it all the time. What makes matters worse is my sexual past. I have had many, many amazing lovers in my life and have been quite experimental.
i need to get laied it is driving me crazy. i am in the best relationship of my life, and have gone for the longest time without sex ever.
Help me!
Mon, 06/13/2005 - 20:23
#1
need to f***


I'm one of those people who are very agressive... up to the sex part... I'll initiate physical activity, but I get nervous when I get to the f***ing, so I kindof back off. Its because I, most of the time, don't last very long.
I'd say thats it. Unless its his first time, and hes just saying hes done it before...
There are a million possibilities, so don't make assumptions. Just talk to him about it, and see if you can calm him down about it.