Hi-Hi! I have a major problema and I need help. I'm not a virgin and I've been told I'm pretty good in bed, but I'm not confident about 1 thing: being on top.
Whenever I got on top of my bf, I always leaned over him-I never sat up straight. The one time I tried, it felt uncomfortable. Not to mention when I bounced up & down I felt silly, like I was doing a whole lotta nothing. I was kinda flexible, but it just didn't feel right...like I didn't have enough room to grind...I felt stiff & like I was doing a whole lotta nothing. Was it because he was a bit on the wide side or b/c I haven't been able to do a split since I was 12?
I'm single and sexless for now...just need some pointers for when I get back out there.
All thoughts & suggestions are welcomed!
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Answers are on your other thread.
Stick with what you do and like best. I personally love it when the girl is on top and is leaning in like you do. I find it hotter.
Thanks happyguy!
Look at the all sex positions tab on the home page....maybe like Deep Impact, Deep Stick, and the standard Doggy Style. Also 68 Her Pleasure, might be good start to get your juices flowing, and help get you really wet.
Oh no, I don't have any problems in that area. It's just the riding thing I'm not too comfortable with, that's all. But thanks for responding.
OKay...heres what you do.
Get some handcuffs, some flavored, latex safe lube, and a blindfold.
First you time cuff your man to the bed, blind fold him, lick his entire body. Apply lube to obvious places, and give him mix of both a hand job and blow job (change from one to the other a few times...thats why the lube should be flavored)
Then when he is nice and hard, and you really feel like your in control, get on top of him and grind back and forth, do everything that comes into your head. Bouncing, grinding, heck even just flexing your pc muscle while you rub your clit....anything that feels good to you.
Do that a few times, making sure both of you get off (if he cums first, then change condoms and keep going till you finish)
I gaurantee you that he will be begging you to do that again and again. And you no longer have to worry about being uncomfortable because you know you drive him wild while on top. (Then you can take off the blindfold and handcuffs and do whatever you want)
Thanks, ur almost making me feel good enough to do it. Now all I need is someone to do it to.
Which brings me to an issue that I've been having since...since I can remember. Why can't I meet anyone? I'm not a bad looking woman...at al! I'm a little bit heavier than I should be, but still.
There have been times when I would be willing to just give it away. But it wasn't in an obvious, desperate way. What's the deal with that? As a woman, I should be able to get sex just about anytime I want.
Men, any thoughts?
pbc4159 - Not sure what to tell you but don't just "give it away". You're definitely better than that and you'll find someone soon. And if you want sex anytime you want, I'm sure you can find it!
[QUOTE="pbc4159">There have been times when I would be willing to just give it away. But it wasn't in an obvious, desperate way. What's the deal with that? As a woman, I should be able to get sex just about anytime I want. [/QUOTE]
As a woman, you can get it whenever you want it - well, for the most past anyway. Its just a matter of selling yourself, love (no, not in there here $120 way!). Be a confident girl, be happy, know what ya got and accept it. And dont put pressure on yourself to loose it.. you will come off as desperate. And we dont want that..
And also, most guys prefer curvy birds and dont like girls who are 'a straight line'.