Hi
A couple of days ago me and my gf had sex for the first time without condom. It was nasty because all the juice came out of her vagina after we had sex. Is this normal? Or is it because I didn't penetrate her deep enough (spooning sex position), I have an average penis size (5.5-6 inches) though.
Thanks in advance...
Why no condom????
I think you need to read and find out exactly what you are doing
and what happens when you do it.. your lack of knowledge suggests you are very new to this.. try reading the new to sex threads..
and always wear a condom.. you are at risking diseases and unwanted pregnancies...
This is normal since there is nothing to catch the semen like with a condom. I really wouldn't call it nasy though. Nothing a warm damp cloth can't take care of.
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Yup, this is very normal. Gravity works that way. Part of the semen is absorbed, part travels upward and onward, and part drips out.
Nasty? You are not ready for intercourse, let alone intimacy.
Condom then no condom? What changed?
If you are not yet ready to be a father and to support a child, then you need to look out for and protect A#1--you. Similarly, if your girlfriend is not ready to be a mother and to forever have the future course of her life changed, she needs to be on the pill or using some other form of highly reliable contraceptive in order to protect A#1--her.
Next is a back up measure for a third line of defense and that is to use a spermicide.
Lastly, size is irrelevant.
Please look at the Index and do much reading.
Thanks for the quick answers, seems like a condom is more convenient
My gf takes the pill for quite a long time already, so it's completely safe (we also checked our blood for STD's)
Not nasty and not a problem.
"Oh since my gf is pumping herself full of hormones, I don't have to wear a condom. She takes all the risk and I get off scot-free." Talk about 'nasty'.
Are you a man or just some kid playing pretend??
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;231161]"Oh since my gf is pumping herself full of hormones, I don't have to wear a condom. She takes all the risk and I get off scot-free." Talk about 'nasty'.
Are you a man or just some kid playing pretend??[/QUOTE]
?? Just using a condom without taking the pill isn't 100% safe, that's why we decided to use both.
She takes the pill about two months already, so after we were completely secure that we both didn't have a STD (we went to the doctor), we had a couple of times sex without using a condom.
In retrospect, my question was a bit silly...but hey, now I'm completely informed about the subject.
This has nothing to do with a lack of respect, so I don't get your point...
@ the others, thanks for the useful input
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;231161]"Oh since my gf is pumping herself full of hormones, I don't have to wear a condom. She takes all the risk and I get off scot-free." Talk about 'nasty'.
Are you a man or just some kid playing pretend??[/QUOTE]
That really contributed to the forum's spirit of collegiality.
Lol EEK. Do you just have this line saved in a folder so you can cut and paste.
Squirrel EEK has been here for a long long time. She has contributed to the boards more than most people could ever.
She is trying to stress the point that THEY BOTH SHOULD USE PROTECTION. Is there marraige in the near future? Sure using a condom alone isnt 100 percent effective but neither is the pill. I in fact have a friend who has become pregnant 2 times while on the pill and she takes it religiously...everyday same time doesnt take any antibiotics or st johns wort and has even gone through all meds and such with the doc to see what could cause it to fail...
The only thing they could figure out is that it was a totally random event..
So both parties should use protection. Even if they are STI free, unless they are ready for a child they should wrap up the tools.
I agree Ducy.. Happened to me twice too lol
There are plenty of 'nice' people who will answer your questions and pat you on the head saying "there, there.." You do not need one more.
The reality is that although on the Pill, pregnancies can occur and STI's aren't ONLY the usual uglies but also include things like yeast infections and genital warts.
Man or a kid pretending?
lol its normal .don't insult it callin it nasty its Beautiful in fact:P
What's nasty about it, that's one of the hot parts. You just deposited your junk, her body accepted it, and now its seeping out slowly. I sorta like the idea that even if she goes to the washroom, its still slowly seeping out for the rest of the day. Maybe an ownership thing.
So wait up a sec the girls on birth control and your not using a condom...what is the prob evil? guys use condoms with girls not on the pill all the time...are u saying that all girls who have sex and aren't on some sort of protection themselves are immature and pretending to be grown up? Its like your saying that as long as the guy is covered up everything is ok. but if he isnt and the girl is there is a problem... seems like there was some missed logical thinking here unless you think that both people (girl and guy) need some sort of protection on themselves if they are going to have sex.
Ex: guy has a condom on and girl is on nothing and only protection is condom (that is a very common way how it happens) but thats ok right?
Ex: guy has no condom but girl is on pill. pill only protection. Is this not acceptable?
Evil i love all your posts they are all informative i am just curious to what u think about this from reading your response.
BOTH should be bearing the burden of safe sex, iGlory.
She uses BCPs and he wears a condom.
GOT IT?
yeah i understand that i was just wondering what your view on the matter was cause it seemed like you were going a little sexist there... but anyways thanks for the response.
What goes up, must come down. My wife and I keep a couple extra towels in the night stand for quick post-sex cleanup.
oh i like it when he cum falls out of me it tickles my pussy and im just wanting more and more but it does feel funny if your not use to it and all