I just posted a reply on the discussion about cheating... which prompted me to post a semi-relevant reply here.

Again... I've NEVER cheated on my wife or any previous g/f... but I DO chat online w/ other guys who have the same "bi-curiosity" at times... it helps me to accept it more and to not feel like such a freak-of-nature for being 99.9% straight, but wanting to make a cock cum some day.

My point for my reply though, is I am AMAZED at how many men out there DO have "buddies" they masturbate with or even suck each other - yet they do not tell their wives or girlfriends - but the odd thing: They do NOT consider it cheating!!! (HUH?)

I have had NUMEROUS guys try to convince me (via chat) that "hanging-out w/ another guy and masturbating" is not cheating. Ummm... to ME, if your spouse does not KNOW about it, you LIE about it and you KNOW it'd upset her...? - it IS cheating! No debate, no discussion!

Now... I don't know if they TRULY believe their own BS... or if they are just trying to "justify" their own cheating ways... but either way - it does not make it any more appropriate just because you're both guys.

In my "fantasy" world... yeah, I want to experience making a cock cum... but also in this fantasy world, I never see the guy - it's not ABOUT the guy - I am not attracted to men or anything like that. I just see the cock in my mind.

The fantasy does exist, but in the grand-scheme of things, it is such a SMALL fantasy, that I don't care if I EVER experience it. I LOVE my wife... would NEVER hurt her - especially not for some fantasy that I may not actually even ENJOY in real life.

Sorry - just had to vent about how some people "justify" their actions.

I am not gay, but I have a fantasy of dressing up in silky lingerie and being fucked by a sexy female with a strapon. I suppose I could always do it with an escort sometime. Hen3ry

Hung
i know exactly what you mean.
just the experience of a real penis actually cumming in your mouth.
been one of my fantasies for months, of course i could do that if i wanted to what with only being young and not in a relationship.
and i am afraid that manufactured dildos just wont cut it basicly because it isnt real and it isnt human if ya know what i mean lol
but one day maybe...

[QUOTE=Quote (HngLkAMouse @ April 15 2005,13:57)]again... although I appreciate the thought and suggestion... it simply would not even remotely satiate my curiosity. As if to suggest to a girl that's never kissed a boy: "Here, kiss this inflatable male doll... it's the same thing, it looks like a male and it has a mouth... you can even wet the mouth with saliva...!"

Not quite the same thing. I do not wish to "simulate" the experience... that's not my fantasy. The fantasy is to actually DO it.

But I DO appreciate the attempt to help. Thank you.
- Hlam[/QUOTE]
This is Oat: I have always said that your sexual preference dosn't mean you are limited to just that sex. I always hear guys comment on gay sex. I ask them, you never had sex with a man and they say no!! Hell No! Then I ask if they ever masturbated...which of course they have. Game, Set & Match...Your a man!

So as I explain to them, it really dosn't matter who is stimulating your nerve endings to cause an orgasim. You can be attracted to just women, but if aguy begings to suck you or jeark you off I am sure you will cum if you don't let your head and thoughts get in the way. Hell, if a vibrator, water jet and hundreds of plastice and rubber things can get us to cum, so can a hand or mouth from a human regardless of which sex it belongs too.

If I could suck my dick, I would! If a girl could lick her pussy she would too! So here is my thought on how to make this happen

If your wife is willing to have a 3sum with another man or even a foursum, then as she is sucking the guys dick, join her! Let her show you what to do. You can both do it together. My ex girlfriend and Honey had oral sex while I was doing Honey. They are not gay or really Bi, they did if for the guys!

[QUOTE=Quote (Tessie @ April 16 2005,06:03)][QUOTE=Quote (Honeynoats @ Mar. 20 2005,19:55)]Honey and I lived out this fantasy. I wanted her to be totally worshiped by multiple men at the same time. For her 45 birthday, I had two of my male friends come over and celebrate her birthday with us. What she didn't know was that she was dessert. We had talked about the fantasy of multiple partners before so I figured this was my shot. After dinner I took her to the bedroom and told her to just relax. I stripped her naked, put a robe and blindfold on her and led her back to the kitchen where my friends had cleared the table and laid out a table cloth. I removed her robe then her blindfold to reveal me and my two friends naked in front of her. We helped her onto the table and then began making dessert. She was covered from head to toe with whipped cream and chocolate.

Then we all dove in a licked every part of her body. We devoured her all night. She loved it as the pleasure she received was mind blowing. A couple of years later she returned the favor for me by inviting another girl to join us.[/QUOTE]
OK, I want this fantasty!  

Actually I really would like to know what it would be like to have two men all to myself. I have done the FMF and now want to do MFM. Just for comparrison sake of course.  [/QUOTE]
This is Oat:

Just discuss it with your boyfriend of husband. I was the one who brought the idea up with her though. It started by having one of my male friends we both trusted to join us, then after a while I wanted more and she agreed to it so I set it up. You would be surprised at how many "normal" people would be willing to join in on the fun.

Why not start a thread asking everyone to help you build your confidence? LOL

I did enjoy seeing the photos and if I actually had that kind of confidence in myself, I'd send in one too.

*blushing* - but just a little.

Do I start looking for your photos there?

Golly, that might be classified as a fantasy!

LOL

Glad you (apparently) enjoyed the site. It's a personal favorite for me... one of my fantasies involves people who are comfortable with the sexuality... and that includes their nakedness.

Check out:

www.voyeurweb.com

Not exactly a club, but lots of ideas and people who appreciate the human form and more.

[QUOTE=Quote (Honeynoats @ Mar. 20 2005,19:55)]Honey and I lived out this fantasy. I wanted her to be totally worshiped by multiple men at the same time. For her 45 birthday, I had two of my male friends come over and celebrate her birthday with us. What she didn't know was that she was dessert. We had talked about the fantasy of multiple partners before so I figured this was my shot. After dinner I took her to the bedroom and told her to just relax. I stripped her naked, put a robe and blindfold on her and led her back to the kitchen where my friends had cleared the table and laid out a table cloth. I removed her robe then her blindfold to reveal me and my two friends naked in front of her. We helped her onto the table and then began making dessert. She was covered from head to toe with whipped cream and chocolate.

Then we all dove in a licked every part of her body. We devoured her all night. She loved it as the pleasure she received was mind blowing. A couple of years later she returned the favor for me by inviting another girl to join us.[/QUOTE]
OK, I want this fantasty!

Actually I really would like to know what it would be like to have two men all to myself. I have done the FMF and now want to do MFM. Just for comparrison sake of course.

Wow! This is a pretty popular topic. You guys are pretty kinky, huh? I've actually had sex outside twice. Once in a tool shed and once on a playground, at night. Does anyone know if there are a such thing as "voyeur clubs"?

I'm still working out what my deepest fantasy is, but I often find myself remembering the first time i had sex with my bf....

We got naked and hopped in the shower together. We were both kind of nervous, because neither of us had done it in a shower before. But we started making out, and he caressed my body, was sucking my nipples, then we each took a turn of getting on our knees and giving oral. Then I turned around and bent forward and he slipped it inside me... it felt so amazingly good, every thing he did, wherever he touched me or kissed me.

Then we got out and got into bed and had the most furious, animalistic sex I've ever had Sadly I did not orgasm, but it all felt incredible. Just recalling the image of him hovering above me, thrusting and thrusting as fast as he can... still sends shivers down my back! And gets me super horny! Hehe.

I have always wanted to go camping alone with my bf and have loud hot sex out in the boonies, with no "civilization" around for miles and miles, like wild animals hehe.

The more I'm starting to think about it, the more I want to try being blindfolded and having my hands tied up, and then be licked until I cum. Sadly, I haven't been eaten out very many times, and have never orgasmed from it.

again... although I appreciate the thought and suggestion... it simply would not even remotely satiate my curiosity. As if to suggest to a girl that's never kissed a boy: "Here, kiss this inflatable male doll... it's the same thing, it looks like a male and it has a mouth... you can even wet the mouth with saliva...!"

Not quite the same thing. I do not wish to "simulate" the experience... that's not my fantasy. The fantasy is to actually DO it.

But I DO appreciate the attempt to help. Thank you.
- Hlam

Hmm... this is a quite steamy thread!

I'm thinking about our usualy weekend walks... and that I'd love to surprise him by dragging him off into the middle of the woods & do what comes natural!

Oh, and for the guys who want to suck a dick... I think hung said there would be no reciever w/ a prostetic... well, if your wife would wear a strap on that ejaculates... she might enjoy the feeling of dominance that I'm sure come with watching someone suck her dick! It's still not the real thing... and being a woman who loves giving head... the real thing rocks! but it could work?!

Oooohhh...I'm so bad. I finally got my first bike ride today, after my bf had it for about a week...well...I would like to just take a long drive on it and then make out like 2 teenagers...yeha...I'm wierd...so sue me

[QUOTE=Quote (chaoticdreamz @ April 06 2005,12:11)]Someone else already posted my fantasy on here.  I'm totally straight and love women also, but I want to feel a cock in my mouth.  I don't like guys in any way and don't find them attractive.  I can't look at a guy and say he's cute, but when I watch a porn, I may say I'd like to feel his cock in my mouth.  I also love oral, both going down on my g/f and her down on me.  I too thought I was alone on this, but I have found out that I'm no where near alone.  Maybe someday I'll play this out, who knows.[/QUOTE]
It seems I am not alone in my odd fantasy.

It's so hard to explain how NOT gay I am, but still having that desire.

Not many people understand.

I had that outdoor fantasy... we tried it and the first time was ok... except it was snowing out and was great during the sex.. but pretty nipply cold afterward. Another time with me bent over a picnic table by a lake.. unfortunately there were some guys in a boat.. trolling motor we couldnt hear I guess and we were cheered on by drunken bass fishermen. Ahh the memories......

Someone else already posted my fantasy on here. I'm totally straight and love women also, but I want to feel a cock in my mouth. I don't like guys in any way and don't find them attractive. I can't look at a guy and say he's cute, but when I watch a porn, I may say I'd like to feel his cock in my mouth. I also love oral, both going down on my g/f and her down on me. I too thought I was alone on this, but I have found out that I'm no where near alone. Maybe someday I'll play this out, who knows.

Honey and I lived out this fantasy. I wanted her to be totally worshiped by multiple men at the same time. For her 45 birthday, I had two of my male friends come over and celebrate her birthday with us. What she didn't know was that she was dessert. We had talked about the fantasy of multiple partners before so I figured this was my shot. After dinner I took her to the bedroom and told her to just relax. I stripped her naked, put a robe and blindfold on her and led her back to the kitchen where my friends had cleared the table and laid out a table cloth. I removed her robe then her blindfold to reveal me and my two friends naked in front of her. We helped her onto the table and then began making dessert. She was covered from head to toe with whipped cream and chocolate.

Then we all dove in a licked every part of her body. We devoured her all night. She loved it as the pleasure she received was mind blowing. A couple of years later she returned the favor for me by inviting another girl to join us.

Want to talk about a fantasy? Let me mention my girlfriends best friend. If she only knew...hmmmmmmmm

See and I did it with only one little pinky finger and a wink... Just immagine what i can do with a mouth and smile...

The more fluid the smoother the ride. Trust me there is enough...

And to think that there is so much water between us...

That is a really sad story. I am a big fan of shower fun. Nothing better than lathering each other up and when you are squeeky clean ( and fully errect I am sure) then I will kneel to lick clean your member. Remember you don't want hot water or even warm, room temp is good, you'll make the heat trust me.

When you are fully lubed by my mouth, I will stand and bend over holding the sides of the tub or hands on the wall in front of me so you can have your way with me. Make sure to reach around and tease my errect nipples, they get so lonley.

After a while of hard water slapping thrusts, I will resume to one foot on the side of the tub and facing you...

Fantasy for this afternoon is a wet romp in the shower...you know the kind...

Naked wet bodies, embracing...water flowing over curves and over my firm breasts...bending me over as the water trails down my back to my round ass. Yummy!

Hmmmm...  HngLkAMouse, I would like to see you fulfill that fantasy!  I am really turned on by the thought of two men together.

[QUOTE=Quote (Jaybee @ Mar. 05 2005,15:18)]Hope this doesn't sound too 'Freud', but given that you're straight, I think the only cock you'd like to suck would be your own - that is, if you could.

I know it's a nagging, insistent curiosity, but be glad we were built this way - otherwise, we'd never leave the house...

Jaybee.[/QUOTE]
Wasn't aware of that being Freudian... but I trust you.

That is my point though... if I COULD do it to myself... then "Problem Solved", since the idea of being with another man is such a turnoff. Unfortunately, due to diminished size of my genetalia and an even more diminished range of flexibility... it will never happen unless it gets severed from my body.

This just may remain one of those "curiosities" that never gets fulfilled... but I'd be okay with that too.

OK, I am now in the fantasy stage that I want to go back and screw old lovers again. I mean really wild and animalistic and then just walk away.

Ah to screw and run...

Why is it you alway are out the door when I show up? Do I arrive when the party is over?

Hope this doesn't sound too 'Freud', but given that you're straight, I think the only cock you'd like to suck would be your own - that is, if you could.

I know it's a nagging, insistent curiosity, but be glad we were built this way - otherwise, we'd never leave the house...

Jaybee.

I understand. 100% it is not the real thing.

wishing you the opportunity to pleasure a man one day in a way that fullfills your emotional needs.

I appreciate the suggesions for alternate means of fulfilling the fantasy... but it's just not the same thing. Having sex w/ a RealDoll™ is not real sex, kissing you hand is not kissing a woman, a girl licking a latex-molded pussy is not experiencing a bi moment for her...

I am not looking to "simulate" the experience. The desire itself to do the "REAL" thing isn't even THAT strong... but if I'm gonna do it, I'd rather experience the REAL thing, than to go spend money on some plastic/latex device that doesn't provide pleasure to the recipient because there IS no recipient.

I am an "oral" kind of guy... just ask mt wife. She enjoys multiple O's from it quite frequently. I also love RECEIVING oral... so much, that a part of me wants to experience GIVING the same kind of pleasure that I receive to someone else. It's the experience of giving the pleasure... not just feeling an object in my mouth that just happens to release a liquid.

I would rather not ever get the chance to experience it, than to go through the motions of purchasing something fake that isn't even going to satiate my curiosity. It's just not that strong a desire.. but one with a specific underlying reason that using a prosthetic would negate.

Thanks for your suggestions... but the only thing to satisfy the curiosity would be a real experience, nothing else. But if it never happens... I am not unhappy by any means. Peace.

I wouldn't be surprised. What's your opinion of it?

[QUOTE=Quote ]Well, maybe someone could invent one that would cum.[/QUOTE]

They actually do have them. At the porn store I go to I've seen one that actually came.

[QUOTE=Quote (HngLkAMouse @ Mar. 02 2005,21:22)]Yeah.. not the same thing... my curiosity is not to put something of that shape in my mouth... it is to physically make a cock cum using my mouth. Again... can't explain it... I do NOT like men and am turned-off by gay porn... yet want to experience a cock cuming in my mouth.

Such an odd desire for a straight guy.

Oh well...[/QUOTE]
So if you could do it how would you make it come with your mouth?
What would turn you on?...
Well, maybe someone could invent one that would cum.
if they can make baby dolls that wet and drink bottles why not a life like cock that swells up, gets wet and cums for more real like sensations... wow, $$$ potential.....

you don't want to do a mmf threesome?

it would be interesting to know the subconscious motivation for that desire and how it could be satisfied to make you happy. hmmm
takes out magnifying glass and dones on sherlock holmes cap.

That's definately not lame....I love it when my boyfriend takes control of me. Like I love feeling vulnerable and him just having all this power over me. I also love to switch it and I would be the one with all the power.

Well I've actually seen dildos that will emulate a guy cumming. They have a mix or something that you put into them that looks like cum and it's like the fake penis is cumming. So maybe you could try something like that.

MIne is somewhat lame. I would like to try a light BDSm stuff, with my bf having complete control over me...told you it was lame

Yeah.. not the same thing... my curiosity is not to put something of that shape in my mouth... it is to physically make a cock cum using my mouth. Again... can't explain it... I do NOT like men and am turned-off by gay porn... yet want to experience a cock cuming in my mouth.

Such an odd desire for a straight guy.

Oh well...

If your wife is game she could always strap one on for you though that may not be quite the same as real live flesh...then you could always consider a threesome...
but that may be too kinky for you and your wife.

Okay... I think it's time for me to share a deep, dark secret. I've just started coming to terms with it.

First of all... I am heterosexual... LOVE women... LOVE my wife.

I am NOT attracted to men in any way. I never want to kiss or hug one... not curious about anal (giving or rec'vng) with men. Nothing about guys turn me on...

BUT...

I would like to experience giving oral to a cock some day. I cannot explain it. I am an "oral" kind of guy and I feel the curiosity to give oral on a cock until it cums. It's such an odd desire since the thought of being w/ a guy is a turn-off. I've seen gay-sex clips before and they do NOTHING for me... I love seeing heterosexual cumshots... but not gay ones... again, I can't explain it.

I guess if my wife had a penis (as a hermaphrodite, or something) it'd make life a lot easier to live-out my fantasy... but alas, she does not.

I will most-likely never fulfill this fantasy as I would/could NEVER cheat on my wife. love her to much to even consider it. I've never cheated on anyone, ever.

It's hard to explain, and understand, the desire to experience an ejaculation from the giver's perspective... yet not be gay or attracted to men... BUT... the good news is that I've found that I am FAR from alone. I have chatted with many OTHER men with the same secret desire(s).

Good to know! - Anyhow... just felt the need to share.

Thnx.

My more recent fantasy ( 2-3yrs old) is to have hot steamy erotic sex with a certain fireman in the fire truck right after a call.....uniform still on! He would have to put out my hot fire that's a three-alarmer.....