Sometimes when i masturbate, a lot, likei maturbated last night like 2 times. And this morning like about 4 times.... but i did it 4 times because my penis hurt so much so i thought that by masturbating it would help it not hurt... cuz i woke up and it hurt so i did that so it wouldn't hurt anymore... but when i do masturbate it doesm't hurt. It jus hurts afterwards on the top and the middle. Why is this please help?
Sun, 08/17/2003 - 20:31
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My penis hurt...
I do not have a penis so this is a medical response without personal experience.
After prolonged engorgement, most men's will have some pain. Multiple erections as you describe, especially without complete resolution after each event leaves things a bit sore from being pumped ull for too long. There is no damage being done. During sexual arousal both sexes have much blood in the genital area. That is what creates male erection and female opening. Blue balls as described in several recent posts are actually painful because of over-engorgement.
We women rarely end up with any pain from this but men quite commonly do. An evening of heavy petting without ejaculation is uncomfortable for any man.
If you masturbate a lot, or suddenly start masturbating a lot more than normal, its not unusal (at least for me) to be kinda sore... I've had a time or two where my foreskin got sorta scratched or rubbed raw in a place, but other than that never anything that I'd call real pain. Try laying off of the masturbation for a day or 2, and you'll probably stop hurting.
If that's what's causing it, maybe try using some lube when you masturbate, to keep from having as much friction/rubbing.
How do you masturbate? I know it sounds like a silly question, but it will give insight as to what you may be doing that is causing the pain.
Also, are you circumsized or not? Does your penis hurt or your balls? Does it hurt like it's "sore" or what? Please describe the pain and where and how it hurts!
Like mike said, you may need to use some sort of lubrication ifyou're really squeezing or chafing your penis when you masturbate!
Yeah i would agree with what they said
Lube use lube more.
Hey and if you are a teenager and you have a mom who sneaks around... how do you have lube without looking like you use it... if you get what i mean... cuz i have a friend who's mom always like cleans and looks in their room... so how do you keep it secret that you are using lube?
You can probably find some place that they won't find it. Under the bed, in the back of you closet or wherever. After all, a little tube or bottle of lube isn't all that big. Then when you use it just put a towel or dirty t-shirt or something on the bed or wherever you're going to masturbate so that none gets spilled.
All the soreness responses are right on. Here are a few tips for hiding your lubes, condoms, etc.
If you have coats or jackets in your closet, put them in the breast pocket. Nobody ever puts things in the breast pocket so it's not a logical place to look. Put them inside a sock in the bottom of your sock drawer. If all that fails, just buy a bottle of baby oil. There are hundreds of uses for that and shouldn't raise suspicion.
BTW nodoubt16pb, unless your mom is living in the 50's, she's got a pretty good idea of what's going on with those 30-minute bathroom trips.
Not me personally.. my mom is very open about sexuality and is very open with me having a sexuality but a friend asked me that today cuz his mom stays at home and if she find anything he will get dirty looks or something cuz one time in the middle of the night my friend kept going to the bathroom and she yelled at him asking him what he kept doing..... of corse going to the bathroom ... but she doesn't see that. She has a lot of sexual fears and has a mom from the 50's who put those things into her head about sexuality.
Mothers know that their teenage sons masturbate. There's no need to hide it, it may even strike up a healthy conversation regarding sex.
thanks alot you guys. the info's really helpful.
see ever since sex ed in 9th grade ive been paranoid about STDs and shit so i was freakin out (im a bit of a hypacondriac).
well anyway thanks, and yeah i use the vaseline.
ps nodoubt16pb is my girlfriend, she made the first post cuz i was too embarassed. thanks babe
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Ah well if you use vaseline its easy to hide, since there are a thousand "normal" uses for it
You might want to try some other lubes though, that could be part of the pain problem. I never really liked vaseline all that well... maybe just me though. You can pick up a tube of KY at your local drug store, or buy astroglide or etc online. If none of those is an option, just try baby oil. Works great as long as you don't mind washing the oil off of your hands afterwards.
Yeah if you go to the astroglide web site they have free samples they can send ya... so if you always check the mail then go that:)