Hey i'm relativly new to sex.
I've had sex with my girlfriend 15 times, and honestly I'm quite disapointed with the whole act on a whole.
I mean it feels good and all, but i could get basically the same exact stimulation from jerking off to porn.
I think i may feel this way for 2 reasons, one my penis size and her vagina hole.
My penis is of average size, its 6"x4.5", however i think she is a tad loose, i don't know, i could be totally off base, but i get very stimulation from the act of intercourse. The first time i fingered her, i could easily fit 2 fingers and after getting her all area wet, three was very little of an issue.
My longest time lasting with her was a half an hour, she really enjoyed it and always wants to have sex, however she has never climaxed, it takes a toll on ones self esteem to realize that you can't get the person you love to her sexual climax, and i have read a lot of your websites tips, however i can seem to do it. I can't do it from fingering or anything, i can get her worked up really good from intercourse and from fingering, but i never get her over age.
Also the last time we had sex i was engaged in the action and i hadn't really been horny or anything, but her parents wern't home, so i got hard and started up, but while i was having sex i started to go flacid, this has only happened one other time, and that was when i fucked her for the second consecutive.
In addition to that i never really have a raging hardon, well except for once, and thats when i lasted the half hour and also the time she derrived the most pleasure from the act.
She asks me for sex 2-3 times a night, and it takes a toll not only my penis, but also on my self esteem because it's makes me feel as if i can't perform up to her standards. Also she usually asks me to go deeper, but usually i'm hard enough, or i', possibly not long enough, so when she says this it's as if shes implying im some how not long enough for her.
I'm also 17 and so is she. So we were both our first times, she also masterbates and knows to get herself off externally.
Someone help me, do i need viagra or more excerice i don't know.
I have had sex 20-30 times with a total of 2 guys and never orgasmed from it. It does depend on the girl, but in general, the harder the guy is, the better it feels. Also, i am pretty sure that there are no nerves beyond the first couple inches in, so maybe she just likes the closeness of you being in as far as you can go? I know i enjoy that.. just the advice i can give you, hope it helps somewhat and good luck!
also what you also have to keep in mind is that in women you just cant always have an orgasism there body has to be more mature as well to have a full orgasism
omg, u scared me with the subject ^^
It's pretty easy to bring a woman to orgasm, but the average man thinks he can just pound away. Some women experience orgasms better anally, some from clitoral stimulation, some from vaginal stimulation, some need a combination. You just have to experiment, and find out what works. But just pounding away is NOT the answer.
I don't know the male ego is fragile
I can count on the fingers of one hand (with some left over) the number of times I have reached climax as a result of penile thrusting. One-quarter of all women never experience orgasm; half of us do not through thrusting. You are not responsible for her orgasms and if she is satisfied, what's your problem.
If she masturbates to climax, she can reach climax with you but you need to learn some other techniques of stimulating her.