ok guys and girls this may be my last input on this forum while with my gf. she is sick of me not having the confidence to kiss her first or do those simple things that make her happy to be with her man. ok so what i guess im looking for is somone or something to tell me what i can do togive her everything that she want but i can do on my parents house. the only time i see her is when parents are home so our acts of love are limited including the fact that shes forbidden sex because she feels like marrage is the time to give herself which is ok by me. I think she has become dependant on my performance in the bedroom because i have stopped making money to take her out and off the topic of sex. can anyone tell me what i can do about this because ive just landed a new job and am looking at doing everything i can to spoil her but she just wants more sexual acts as spoiling instead of being taken out. help!:(