I entered this question in the married and long-term relationships as well, but maybe I'll get some more answers from here...
My husband is in the U.S. Army, and he should be home sometime next month... for good. I want to make him "feel at home" and one of the things I've been dying to do to him is virtually impossible... due to his "sack" being ticklish.
I need answers! Any guys or women with the same problems, please help me out here... or am I out of luck in that department? :confused:
Once again - 'desensitizing' the area!
The more you do, the less ticklish he'll become.
Its hard to advise, since you haven't really explained what it is that you want to do. I don't really see how being ticklish is a problem, though. Finding each other's ticklish spots and teasing them can be a lot of fun. Use his ticklish spots to yours, and his, advantage.
Again, it's fine to be ticklish, but I can't go NEAR them. It isn't interfering with our sex life, but touching them would be something I'd like to do.
I thought I specified that...
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Haha, see that's my problem too. My feet are EXTREMELY ticklish, and he's the only one who's ever been able to touch them. I guess I could say the same for my husband's package, since we are each other's first and only lovers.
There are times where it's less ticklish to him than others, but I can't touch them for no longer than a few seconds. I'm not giving up yet though. Thanks for the help. :)
Okay - you need to 'desensitize' him a bit. Begin by doing what is called body worship. Have him lie on his stomach and slowly, very slowly, lick, kiss, caress with hands, nails, lips, body, and trailing tresses of your hair all over him, and I do mean slowly and all over him - every inch of skin. Then have him lie on his back - save his genitals for last - and repeat the process. Finally, when he's about to scream!, go in for the kill which will be wild uninhibited sex and "to heck with my testicles being ticklish; come here, woman!"
Do this approximately three times a week for three weeks.
My little buddies used to be very ticklish. I don't know how it happened but eventually I was able to take whatever my wife would dish out. I wasn't as ticklish as what you were explaining however. I could stand fingers and hands but the tongue was a killer until I got used to it. Try gentle grabbing at first and make your way up to caresses and then onto tonguing.
I want advice I haven't tried before >_< LoL
Guess I could keep trying.
I think that if you keep trying that eventually the ticklishness will lessen. When my fiance and I first started dating he couldn't kiss my neck or shoulders without me squirming around because I was extremely ticklish and, to make matters worse, I was a terrible giggler. I mean, at one point I laughed so hard my eyes were watering during a makeout session. My fiance managed to kill those problems by "desensitizing" me in certain areas. However it still is pretty horrible when he picks on me in areas that still make me squirm- like between my shoulder blades.
Good luck with the Army wife thing. I mean Lois from Family Guy said it best: "Chris, you can't join the army, you're too young. Besides, the army is weak. Now the Marines, those are the guys you want to f**k!" Did I mention that I'm madly in love with my Marine?
Good luck and happy humping!
You've tried body worship before?
Psh, the Marines get all their equipment from the Army's leftovers. I love my soldier ;) ...and I love Family Guy. But my soldier is better. :D
I'll get to working on the "desensitizing" once he gets home... He's still in Fort Bliss in El Paso, Texas so Hopefully by the end of the month, or early next month.
Thanks again and I will have happy humping!
Yes, my fiance and I have tried body worship and lots of other interesting stuff and usually it's enjoyable to try new things. EvilEvilKitten, don't be so surprised about what your fellow members do when not spouting their opinions.
Militarywife, I was raised in one of those families that has army in every generation. I was expected to join the army and become a surgeon but instead I'm engaged to a Marine and thinking of joining the peace corp... LOL. As far as I can tell, a man in cammo is a catch.
And FYI, I haven't had much experience aside from my very own Marine, but I think Lois is right.
Agreed, a man in uniform is always good. ^_^ They're fun to take off ;D
Fine, fine... the army and marines can be equal... but... uh... MY SOLDIER CAN BEAT UP YOUR SOLDIER!!.... O_o
Lmfao
Can't wait for him to come home ^_^
I feel for u - as I have the same problem - except my guy is ticklish all over. Tell me how romantic/sexy it is to run your fingers up their chest and they curl themselves in a ball and start giggling!!! There is something to be said for being sensitive but come on, what is a girl to do?? I told him that I was going to try to desensitize him by constantly running my hands over him, while he is sleeping, or awake to try to minimise the sensitivity he feels. Just have to see how that goes. Wish me luck.
PS - Military Girl - try a little bit more pressure, so it's not so flutter over his balls.