No this isn't about great excuses that I come up with to get my varacious girlfriend to leave me be when I'm tired.
My problem is this: My girlfriend looses control of her body during orgasm. Heck even in the build up to orgasm she squirms like crazy! When I finger my hand is usually sore from being crushed. When I give her oral sex my ears ring for a while afterwards. Her legs scrunch together and her hands grip my hair. Now, I'll admit it's a bit ego-boosting to have her "loose control" because of my stimulations, but it hurts.
I've only ever made love to her, and I've studied hefty portions of this website. So I'm not that experienced with sex, but I do know her body.
So I think I've got 2 options.
1) Tie her ankles apart at a 45 degree angle when delivering oral sex...
2) Wear a helmet (might not work so well in retrospect:rolleyes: )
[COLOR="Blue">I have to control myself whenever my boyfriend performs oral on me, otherwise I would probably hurt him. I have to use selfcontrol in order not to hurt him. I want to do the things you describe she doing but don't do them for 2 reasons.
1. I love him and don't want him hurting especially because of me.
2. I want the pleasure to continue for me ;)
Simply tell her to control herself to the point where you are not being hurt in the pursuit of her pleasure or you can stop till she takes control. [/COLOR]
ROFLMAO -- helmet, very amusing :p :p :p
Anyway ... go ahead & see if she'd like being tied up ... could be fun for you both :)
One time I got kneed in the head so hard that I was seeing stars, literally. We had the holding of the head by the hair thing going on at that time too. Here's he response as I'm laying with my head resting on her leg: "Oh my God! I'm so sorry! Are you ok??"
me: "yeah, I just need a minute."
her: "hurry! I was so close, and it was so good!"
Well, being as dedicated to the cause as I am, we finished. The stars went away after five minutes or so of going back to work. Don't worry, she's not selfish, I was rewarded for my efforts. I thought about jokingly thrashing around, but decided against it becuase of the throbbing between my temples. And this is the end of my story.
I used to push/kick my boyfriend off the bed. Hard. Too hard.
lol an ex of mine would sufficate me cuz when she got really into me eating her out she would close her legs and crush my head, i was thinking of bringing a snorkle nex time lol
LOL, thanks for the laugh, tell her first that she has to chill out a little, do it nicely. Then if the next time you do it, she starts to get out of control. STOP, just stop, she may hurt you intentionally then, but it will teach her a gooooood lesson. of couse continue after she swears to god that she will never move or again as long as you finish what you were doing.
Teehee. That is funny. . . I'd go with Ryouko, though. Just don't cooperate until she agrees to control herself.