Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 years now. Our sex life is already dieing and i don't know what to do. We have "normal" sex, but thats where it ends. She very rarely gives me head and won't consider anal. I want to try new stuff and can't convince her to do the same. Every time I bring it up she either changes the subject or says "I'll try to start making things better." But things never change. Someone please help me!
Tue, 04/11/2006 - 02:41
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my girlfriend is way too uptight!
How old are you two? And if it's "dying", what did you do before that you don't do now? I know I haven't had sewx with my BF of two years yet, but our sex life only gets better every day.
I'm 18 and she's 20. The reason its dieing is because we just don't do it as much as we used to. It doesn't seem like she's as interested anymore.
Maybe she's not as interested anymore...are there any big problems or stresses in your life?
Also, i've noticen many people posting these sort of questions lately, if you search around, I'm sure you'l find some more informative ideas on how to "bring back" your sex life.
She's probably bored too, from the sounds of it.
But Lackadasical is probably right, more likely there's something going on, she's stressed or under pressure or something, because it doesn't sound like she's even interested in making it work or trying new things.
My suggestion would be to find out what is is that's got her preoccupied. What does she want from this relationship? Are you support? Is she even interested in something physical? Are there things that you could contribute to the relationship? For example, I've been stressed from exams, and knowing this, my boyfriend made himself completely available for me and for our lifestyle. He took cooking, chores, and tasks into his own hands in order to take some of that burden and stress off of me. I was A LOT more relaxed from that. I wonder if there's something you can do for for her to show her you're there for her.
Also, a lot of women will say that they'd be willing to give a little more if they get something back in terms of romance. How often do we hear a woman say "there's no passion, there's no romance." I don't know if she's that way but it's a suggestion.
Thanx for the advise. There is a lot of stress in our lives. We have a son that is almost 2 years old. Plus she is trying to make it through college. But before that she was uptight. when it comes to romance i give and give. I do a lot for her, she just won't give back.
wow. kid already?
good luck man. so far so good? you was 16..?
maybe she is having alot of stress from college....
hopefully you guys pull through, for the relationship and for your boy.
it would suck to have a father missing from childhood. or a mother.