me and my girlfriend have been having sex. But before we did have sex she said she has endo and painful sex also she hasnt had an orgasm i really want to give her one but how can this painful sex be eliminated so she can enjoy sex? please i have found this site were i can get some advice please i really have been trying to find out what i can do so she isnt just in pain i really cant stand hurting her but she wants be to have sex with her
please all the advice or solutions to her problem would be greatly appreciated
can anyone help?
hi yah... read http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/ there is alot of good information in there that will help.
once you have read them and you still have questions come back and ask
ive been all over the place on these forums and i got alot of new tips ;-)
anyway there isnt anything about painfull sex or endometriosis and not having great sex just pain is there a solution to all of this ?
jM - get her to a gynecologist ASAP! Endrometriosis is nothing to mess with. It is NOT a self-help kind of thing. Just give her emotional support for now.
[quote=EvilEvilKitten;207567]jM - get her to a gynecologist ASAP! Endrometriosis is nothing to mess with. It is NOT a self-help kind of thing. Just give her emotional support for now.[/quote]Ditto. Need to see a Gyn ASAP! It can impair fertility for years [if not permanently] and cause serious pain and bleeding in the interim.
Pain and the bleeding etc - can make even the most stalwart of girls 'DISINTERESTED' in sex. Actually it is a wonder you haven't been slapped for even bringing the subject up.
the thing is is that she always wants to have sex shes always turned on and i can turn her on greatly its just when we go at it it hurts when i put it in and she says its gettin better when im in her
i cant stand hurting her but she wants it i mean im not ganna push her away if she wants to have relations its just when im in missionary position and look down her face kills me
can you tell me what fixes it or anything ? shes on birthcontrol and shes been to the gyno and theve told her everything she needs to know its just i want to give her an orgasm her first one at that its just the pain issue is in the way
thankyou for all your replys more would be great
Re-read Evil's posts. Endometriosis is nothing to be nessed with. Some women can have a normal sex life and even have children. Other women are having damage done by having sex.
A problem for all women is that we want to please our partners and this leads to risky behaviour. This should be discussed completely with her treating physician. What treatment has been recommended, the severity, what the doctor expects in the future all stir into the advisability of having sex.
Even without endometriosis, a quarter of all women never reach orgasm; with it, I cannot even estimate. Now, the best thing you can do is get her to her doctor and the two of you follow the guidance. If that means no vaginal sex until treatment goals have been met, then no vaginal sex for a while.
Guy even if she wants to have sex with you - that doesn't mean you MUST have sex with her. Sorry but she's being ACCOMODATING. Do NOT let her do this.
Endrometriosis can be fixed. Get that taken care of BEFORE you go ANY further.
thankyou all for your information it helped me alot
thanks guys i cant thankyou enough
[quote=jM@n;207801]thankyou all for your information it helped me alot
thanks guys i cant thank you enough[/quote]Yes, you can thank people...inform others as to the seriousness if you have a friend who encounters such. Encourage them to seek medical care. That is a big thank you to all involved!