Ahaha sometimes my GF does that, or she'll touch it for a bit then stop. Then theres times where Im either limp because well I get hard at the start of usually good kissing then Ill rub her around to get her hot, then Ill do what I need to do to make her feel good then she'll try to do osmething for me, but by then its to late.

But yea, definately talk to her. I talked to my GF about a lot of things and it helps just make each other comfortable. Find out if she's just selfish or scared and then try to sort it out through communication, nothing worse then being left in the dark not knowing what their problem is.

In the last few weeks I’ve seen this come up a lot from some of our new members... but calling your partner a bitch/ass/dick (w/e) to his/her face is probably not a good way to get anything accomplished in a fight or Disagreement. If your sexually active you should probably be mature enought to be able to have a discussion with out that kinda stuff…

Yep- Tell her you will do to her what she does to you. She dont want to coperate tell her theres other women who will. Play a bit of hard ball with her. Shes selfish and unexperienced but how else is she going to learn? The rolling over aftere wards sounds like some men .LOL I better watch it here I'm a man. LOL Good luck.

Yeah, it sounds like she hasn't had too much experience with dicks. I know i'm still a little self contcious about giving head to my guy.   Just talk to her about it. Maybe give her a few pointers...

I don't think you should ever do anything for the sole purpose of expecting anything in return.
That said, you do feel better when you are rewarded for the things you do.
This has been brought up before and some people say to leave her high and dry and not give her pleasure and hold out in hopes she'll "give in".
This isn't right either, altho I don't think you should always be so willing to give her what she wants...makes things too one sided.

I think this totally depends on the ages of the people and how experienced she is. Yes I was also intimidated the first few times I came in contact w/ a penis, lol.
You wonder, what am I supposed to do? What if I do it wrong? What if I hurt him? etc.
Now if she's young and unexperienced then all the other posts are right, just talk to her and encourage her its ok and you guys can learn together.
If she does know what to do, but then chooses not to do it, thats a whole other story.
That requires a different kind of talk about what each person brings to, and expects from the relationship.... sexual or otherwise.

I just don't understand how (or why) a woman would say "no" to anything....I can honestly say that I've never said no to my men....sex (in any form) is too wonderful of a thing to pass up......but that's me......I'm always looking for more and in many ways!

Acid- I am with you on this one, what can a man do? You need to give as well as take....fair is fair.

deffo talk to her. if shes feeling insecure just keep lettin her know that shes got no reason to be...after all u picked her out of all the girls in the world! let her know that its unfair that shes gettin all the pleasure and ur not but try and not start a fight. good luck!

One of my early girlfriends was like this. I think she was just a bit awed by it all... also a fear of somehow getting it wrong. She was 16 at the time.

Definately worth a chat, but without getting to heavy. If she is feeling insecure insome way, then she will need supportive comments.

I know I was just "scared" to touch a guy's penis when I had never seen/touched one before. It took me awhile to get over the fear actually! LOL I dunno why I was scared but I was. Luckily I had a very understanding boyfriend at the time.

Anyway, just ask her about it. Don't say you are pressuring her into it, just tell her your feelings are hurt and you're just wondering whats going on.

How old is she? Does she have much experience at all in touching a man's penis? She might be scared that she doesn't know what to do. This stuff isn't just known it has to be taught and practiced. What exactly doesn't she like about it or is afraid of? Just telling you not to pressure her is not a good enough reason.

I suggest you sit down and have a talk about it. Do it when your not being intimate and when you both have the privacy and time to really talk about it all.

Good luck.  

Well it sounds like your girlfriend is being really selfish. It would be different if you haven't tried to talk to her about it. The two of you should be able to communicate and if you can't do that then it can't be a very healthy relationship. You need to give her sort of an ultimatum. Stop doing everything for her until she willing to do something for you in return.

Tell her shes bein a bitch, tease her a bunch and then stop, say she can get her fun when your done.