Yea my girlfriend was givin me oral the other day and she had to keep spitting because of the precum... after about 5-10 minutes she stopped giving oral all together. she said there was too much precum and it was hard for her to swallow it.. how the hell do i get myself to stop precumming (lol) or somethin cause it felt really good when she was down there but it didnt last long enough haha... i noticed i didnt really start precumming until i got handjobs Note: im sure its not premature ejaculation because its not actual cum that comes out
Thu, 06/28/2007 - 05:07
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My girlfriend and oral


Don't think you can stop it.
It does taste quite salty!
thats what she said!!! lol
In all my years of doing this, I've only read about two other cases of too much precum. A little that covers the Glans is normal, and, it will come and go as a guy's level of arousal changes during the session. Too much? Any idea how much you are producing? It just could be that this is her perception and you are actually producing a normal amount which isn't all that much. I don't know.
Your options would seem to be-
a. no more oral
b. she learns other ways to handle it
Other ways of handling the solution are-
1. depending upon the amount, she can deposit the solution in a small jar
2. or, a tissue
3. she can take a sip of water, soda, wine, along with the precum and swallow
4. use her tongue or lips to redeposit it back on the penis
> how the hell do i get myself to stop precumming
Well, you can't. The solution is a natural process of becoming aroused. It's purpose is to purge the urethra of impurities harmful to sperm, and to act as a temporary lubricant.
> i noticed i didnt really start precumming until i got handjobs
Now that is a strange observation because I would venture an educated guess that we all produce it as soon as we begin becoming aroused. Regardless, the reason you are producing it during oral stimulation is really because you are with a partner who turns you on much more intensely than you do when home alone by yourself.
> im sure its not premature ejaculation because its not actual cum that comes out
You are correct. PE is simply having an orgasm and ejaculating before you want or intend to--simple as that.
I suggest the two of you talk about what is really going on, what she is experiencing and then working on a plan that gives you what you want along with a process she can accept.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
I love how cum tastes, but pre-cum tastes even better. Its sweeter, and less bitter. If she can't even handle pre-cum, she'll never swallow :confused:.
I also agree that pre-cum tastes much better, I do not mind the taste at all. She should surely try to have some wine before or mint tea or grapes or lemon so she isn't so sensitive to taste. But surely, if a girl is so focussed on taste, then maybe she doesn't really like giving oral and that is just a reason that is easy to word.
Laika + CWomen: Some women are just more sensitive to taste, whereas some are more to smell.
I don't think we have a SM33 reversed situation though. I just think she might be having real issues with the taste.
Try it in the bath and see if she likes it better.
[QUOTE=alban lusitanae;184818]Laika + CWomen: Some women are just more sensitive to taste, whereas some are more to smell.
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Yeah...I'm very sensitive to both...they make me horny :D :p.