Hey I'm 16. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins and I just want to make sure that I'm good. Does penis size matter? Cause I measured 6 1/2 and I'm not sure if that is "big". Help me out here girls
-sweetguy
Fri, 01/23/2009 - 01:46
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My first time. How will I pleasure her?
You can pleasure all of us by looking around a bit before asking the same old stuff.
I guarantee she won't enjoy the mechanical intercourse part, regardless of penis size.
Put a lot of effort into making out first, kissing, holding all that and it should overall be a positive experience for her that way. When it gets to getting your penis going (if you are able to perform, not a guarantee I'd say), you want to go pretty slow in for her, be a bit firm so she can't just say it hurts too much. Use lube if you can.
That's all. Don't bitch out, make sure you get it going, she won't think you're an asshole if you pay her attention afterwards and it'll only make things easier.
While normally I'd tell you to disregard everything that CrackBaby says, he gives SOME good advice.
It is likely, but not certain, that your first time will be sloppy and not mind blowing. Don't go into the experience expecting to help her achieve an orgasm.
Also, don't worry about your size.
Use lube. Like the aforementioned poster said, spend most of the time, at least an hour before actual penetration, cuddling, kissing, and dry humping. Proceed to mutual masturbation and oral if you desire. I'd recommend it.
Hope it all goes well. There are many helpful posts on this forum dedicated to people who are thinking about having sex for the first time. Read them. Also read the information on birth control failure rates.
Well I would like somemore advice from girls. Like girls what are some key things that really make sex enjoyable for you? And Im really unsure if I'm still big enough. And I know how to perform it's just I really would like to make it special for her one it being both our first and two I love her and I want her to feel it when we have sex. So a lil more help here girls.
thnx - sweetguy
For the last time: Stop worrying about the size of your d*ck.
Seriously.
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums, if I haven't already done so. Please begin by reading the FAQs, Posting Guidelines, and the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index has links to many helpful informative articles and how-to tips.
When you go to the Index, begin by reading the first post and continue all the way down and onto the articles on the second page. After you have done your homework, please feel free to ask any questions or concerns that come to mind.
DO NOT plan on having intercourse go without a hitch; this is a completely unrealistic expectation. Concentrate on making your lovemaking session memorable and pleasant. Read the article that discusses one person having more experience than the other.
Work on perfecting your make-out sessions and learning how to become a great lover using the techniques of "Necking", "Petting", "Heavy Petting", and then finally, "Foreplay", all before going on to intercourse. Being a great lover and one who is knowledgeable, skilled, caring, and, compassionate, has more to do with pleasing the emotions and the psyche of a woman than with the physical aspects of all this.
So, get comfy and begin reading and adding to your knowledge. I look forward to answering your next series of questions.
Enjoy,
-Doc