my first post on this forum so would just like to say hi to everyone.
i have been with my girlfriend for about two and a half years now and we both really enjoy making love the only problem being she gets quite sore and has to stop, in all honesty this is a problem that bothers her more than me, yes i get dissapointed sometimes but not half as much as her, also she tends to feel guilty even though i constantly reassure her.
unless we get caught up in the moment and go strait for it we usually spend about half an hour messing about orally before sex and she is always plenty wet enough so i dont think thats the problem, sometimes we also use ky jelly to help. she can last anywhere from twenty minutes to an hour before feeling sore depending on how long its been since we last slept together. i dont expect there is much i can do but i just thought id ask for some opinions as we do have a great sex life with both of us inititiating and loving our time together, this is the only thing that gets her down about it, and i want her not to have a downside with it.
im 9 inches when fully aroused and have a girth of just over 5. she has a very tiny frame but i would have thought over the two years weve now been having sex she would be used to it so i really dont know the cause.
any help would be much appreciated, thanks Nick
Any woman would be sore after 1 hr of penetrating intercourse.... lol
I start out wet but can dry out after a while....just remember to relube during the process.
Well...soreness comes with the territory. You can try lube, but we all live with soreness and it goes away the next morning! Maybe cut the time down from an hour..
I'm with you girls on this one. I think an hour is a bit much to expect her to stay wet. Lets see...say each thrust takes 5 seconds (conservatively probably sort a slow)..that would be 12 per minute X 60min = 720 thrusts in an hour! LOL Seriously though, perhaps try getting her off orally first and then try to get your own climax from penetration a little sooner.
If a guy pumps me for twenty minutes, he will find himself on the floor.
Hmmm...well I don't see any huge problem here. I personally can't imagine an hour of sex! Ok..maybe sex a few times, or foreplay and stuff..but not straight sex. I don't think any guy will last that long now hehe...
an hour of penetrative sex seems a little excessive. no matter how wet i am i dry out after about 20 minutes so if we are carrying on, we grab some more lube :)
they've said it before...but, grab some more lube ... that's the answer to her soar i think :O