well ive come to this site as help to tell me if im not makeing a big mistake. ive had sex befor but only with my ex gf a few times, and now ive moved on to someone that wants to be ****buddies. i dont know what im getting into really other then casual sex whenever we are free for eachother. if anyone on here has a fb and has advice for me id really love to hear from you and anyone thats had a 3 sum with their ****buddy and a freind would be awsome to hear from as well. thanks a bunch guys and dolls
Sat, 08/18/2007 - 21:30
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My first f*** buddy
well it really depends on the person...Me personally ive had fwb and just didnt like it, cuz im more into the emotional kinda aspect of having a gf and fooling around, as opposed to a bj just cuz your horny...
i agree but i think im through with dateing for now and i have a high sex drive so im trying to control it by haveing this fb. i have no problem haveing ties free sex and i know she isnt looking for someone so i think it will work out
ok well then be smart...use a condom and a second form would be even better...albeit spermicidal jelly or bc.
shes on the pill so its ok. she hates condoms and refuses to let me use one so between the pill and withdrawl i think it would be fine. she has been sleeping with 3 other guys that i know of so its allgood
umm...well....u sure that she is still clean...i mean not to sound cruel or anything, but if shes slept with three guys unprotected can you really be sure that shes still clean?
yea i agree wit ducy here use a condom as a precaution.
to quote a very good friend of mine...if you dont love her wear a rubber.
Friends with benefits (FWB) is fine; however, realize you most likely are not the only person she is sleeping with and nor should she be the only one you are sleeping with. Dating women as well is fine. Friends hang out and hook up, skip "falling in love" since there is no room for that in this relationship.
Safe sex? Condoms are a must since this is not some long term relationship you have been in. Diseases are rampant and if the BC pill fails for her it serves as back up. Your sperm & your semen--protect it. More so, protect yourself from getting a disease HPV, HSV, HIV, etc. Sorry, they are a must here. If she does not like it move on a find a new friend who is concerned with your safety & hers. Furthermore, unless you want to be called "DAD" wrap the rascal.
thats really wierd that the girl would say she doesnt like condoms
yea ill watch myself cuz of that comment from her don't mean to sound rude or anything
WEAR A CONDOM! If she refuses, MOVE ON. Sorry, but you can't do that to yourself and your future partners. If this girl wants to have unprotected sex with you, who knows who else she wants to/has had unprotected sex with. STDs are a big deal. The most common side effect is NO side effects, so don't think that just because she doesn't have any she is clean. Sure, most STDs aren't necessarily life threatening, but if you get herpes then you have to deal with painful blisters for the rest of your life, not to mention the embarassment of telling people you sleep with that. Keep in mind that 1 in 3 people or so have HPV, too. This is a bad idea!
If you have casual sex, you need to use protection! It is as simple as that. If you are in a long term relationship with someone you love and trust, and someone who has been tested for STDs and you know isn't having sex with anyone else (or are using protection if they are), OK. Otherwise, you need to protect yourself from STDs.
CONDOMS OR IT IS NO DEAL - PERIOD!
Do not participate in this idiocy with her.
If she is allergic to latex, wear another kind.
Hi
I'm 18 and started having sex at 13 yes I know very young. I had a F*** buddy at 16. It was an interesting expeirence and i don't regret it, we ended up going out together for over a year and a half.:) Just make sure you use protection. It's a great way to discover what you like and don't like and I found it helped me get over shyness.