I broke up last month with my girlfriend. We were together for over a year, and it was my first break-up. Not her first breakup. It was a mutual breakup. We did it because the long distance relationship was not working out, and because of our vastly different long-term goals in life. We're still friends and we talk regularly.
I am wondering if this is normal: I still fantasize about her. A lot. Almost every day I fantasize about 'bedroom activities' and things with her. Does this happen to a lot of people who ended their relationships? It feels very illogical to me because I won't realistically do that with her again.
That's a situation that is hard to deal with and can complicate the friendship. It's perfectly normal, but you may find yourself more angry at her because you miss her. I don't have a lot of advice to offer, other than, if you see her, cut the fantasizing for a couple days, so you don't have any mixed emotions... best of luck. we've all been there.
Sure! Especially if there were no bad feelings involved afterwards. There's probably just a certain comfort level there.