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My boyfriend wants to cum in my mouth.

I don't have a problem with giving head in fact i enjoy it the only problem for me is when he cums i don't let him cum in my mouth. I know this is what he likes and im willing to do it for him but i just don't know how to go about it. I'm not fond of squirting and the taste. He says i don't have to swallow i can spit it out but how do i go about letting him do it in my mouth? Any one have any suggestions as to how i can go about doing it.

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One sex advice person wrote that a couple could get past the "ickiness" idea by having the guy cum and leave it in a pool, say on his belly ![/QUOTE]

This is how I got one of my ex's to eventually swallow. I told her I would just cum on my self and that way she didn't have to take it in her mouth. Then, she could just try licking it up one "puddle" at a time and at her own pace. It was less than a month of this and then she was taking it in her mouth and swallowing it with no problems after that. I was getting BJ's in the car, in the bathroom at her moms house at her family bbq and her Aunt walked in on us! LOL She actually loved it once she got used to it, she told me so in those words. So I know this can work for some women, might be worth a try for anyone looking for a way to get used to the thickness and the taste..

Many women do accept this; many do not. The taste and consistency are not pleasant, so we learn that it is an enjoyable part of being intimate and learn to accept that part. Once you get it, it is yours and how you dispose of it is up to you. Sometimes I keep it; sometimes I use a small towel and sometimes I pull off as he releases.

The big thing is to protect your gag reflex. While you are doing him keep a thumb lightly on the bottom base of his penis. You can feel his ejaculate moving through the urethra. As soon as you feel it, press the back part your tongue against your hard palate. Some women here suggest raising your whole tongue to take it under your tongue. The point is that the gagging is not caused by the taste as much as by that first hard pump striking the back of your throat.

If you want to do it you may want to begin with a dry condom to get the mechanics down before accepting it completely. Once you understand what will happen you can try without the condom.

Please remember that most STDs that can be passed genitally can also be passed orally. And the results are not pretty in the mouth. If you would require a condom for protection in your vagina, it is a good idea to use one for oral.

Hey Brandye, what are the more common std's that pass from the lenis to the mouth.

Chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis. HIV possible but not as likely; HPV has many different varieties.

In short, the bacterial diseases are more common than the viral but why take any chance?

A throat with chancre is not a pretty sight.

Relax! It won't kill you if he's STD-free. And that is exactly what you do - you relax, perhaps think of it as a thick straw and SUCK on the thing. It doesn't taste all that bad.

[QUOTE=Brandye;220841]While you are doing him keep a thumb lightly on the bottom base of his penis. You can feel his ejaculate moving through the urethra. [/QUOTE]

I do this part but I don't raise my tongue, I just use it as a warning. For me it is easiest to just let it go down my throat then have to spit it back out. It ends up on the back of my throat anyhow so going down is better than tasting it again. What they eat can have some effect on taste. I will not let my bf cum in my mouth if he has been drinking.

I do love the power it gives me over him. He is sooooo grateful.

NOTHING he eats has any effect upon how it tastes!!
Jeez! Just make sure he is properly hydrated and get over it.

I swallow, if your going to let the cum in your mouth, you will taste less then having to hold it, and then spit it somewhere.

You just have to be a good trooper and enjoy it!

See it as you getting him to his most vulnerable point and you're in complete control of his amount of pleasure. He's your puppet and you're the master. It makes me feel so sexy and he knows better than to not let me know when he's about to let it go. Ask your boyfriend to do the same.

It's actually not that bad to me. I don't crave it but I also don't think its disgusting. I usually swallow the first load and pull back then the rest that drips out, I lick off.

Also try this with any cum that drips out rub it on your nipples but with the head of his penis not your fingers. I find it so hot and so does he, maybe you will too!

Good luck!

My wife will also not allow me to come not let me cum in her mouth. We discussed it at length and one thing she said, which made a lot of sense, was this:

Men want to cum in a woman's mouth but will NEVER allow cum in their mouths (not from other guys but, for example, kissing a woman's fingers after a hand-job).

I thought about this and you know what? She was right. Most men and (probably) most women do not like it.

Now, she is very quick to reach orgasm (anything between 1 min and 5 mins) and after that everything is a complete no-no. I'm happy for her but I'd also like that little extra.

We discussed certain ways of evening things out that could satisfy both of us. One real interesting thing (which we have not tried even a month after discussing) is...

She provides a lot of foreplay to me to get me to the point of cumming: oral, hands, whatever we like. Then, I enter her. She will cum very quickly and I will too. Now, this is where it takes courage. She then face sits me and I effectively "eat pie". After a little of this she gets off and we kiss deeply. This way, she suggests, is fair: we BOTH taste it and there is no risk of gagging due to spurting and there is no risk of her possibly feeling overwhelmed by whatever amount is produced. If this was aceptable then she would then think about allowing me to cum in her mouth from direct oral.

Anyway, that is something we discussed but have not tried yet - and who knows, may not try for a while longer. Key thing here is for the male to come to terms with it and confront/lose any hang-ups or inhibitions. May take some time, as it is with me, but if it helps a better sex life then I will certainly try and confront my feelings head-on (no pun intended).

[QUOTE]Men want to cum in a woman's mouth but will NEVER allow cum in their mouths (not from other guys but, for example, kissing a woman's fingers after a hand-job).
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Not true with all men and she does have a point with why should she allow it in her mouth if you won't in yours.

[QUOTE]She then face sits me and I effectively "eat pie". After a little of this she gets off and we kiss deeply. This way, she suggests, is fair: we BOTH taste it and there is no risk of gagging due to spurting and there is no risk of her possibly feeling overwhelmed by whatever amount is produced. If this was aceptable then she would then think about allowing me to cum in her mouth from direct oral.
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This really isn't a bad solution. My wife doesn't have me cum very often in her mouth, but is good at giving oral. She will have me cum in her mouth some of the time and when it does happen it is great. She will usually spit it out after I have released. One time I was sitting on the couch nude and she came up to me and started to give me a bj. I just sat back and enjoyed it thinking that after awhile I would pull her clothes off and we would have PIV and I would get to finish in her. She kept going longer than normal and I told her that if she kept it up I would cum. She looked up and said she wanted me to cum and went back to my cock with her mouth. Knowing she wanted me to cum in her mouth I just relaxed and enjoyed it to completion. When I started to squirt, she just started to swallow which really surpised me. But she sucked everything from me before she let go of my cock with her mouth. I was absolutley stunned.

My wife likes me to go down on her after I have filled her with cum. She sometimes wants more stimulation even after I have finished so I go down on her and end up licking her clean. I found it isn't that bad and is great to give her what she needs. She enjoys watching me taste my own cum and it has made her more willing to allow me to cum in her mouth. Also we enjoy going back and forth between PIV and oral. I think it is hot that she will take my cock and work on it with her mouth after it has been in her with her juices on it. So she gets to taste herself on my cock and I get to taste her juices generated by having had my cock in her. So by willing to taste myself after PIV has opened up some good variations for us. She is more willing to do oral and even let me cum and I can still give her multiple orgasms even after I have orgasmed by going down on her. There are times during PIV that I think about cleaning her up by giving her oral. But after I cum, it isn't very appealing and so I usually don't. But I also understand why she doesn't want me to cum in her mouth because sometimes it just isn't very appealing.

Good luck with this. I would suggest that you take the first step and instead of you waiting for her to sit on your face, you just go down on her after you have cum in her. Just spend a little time kissing and licking and then stop. After doing this a few times, she will probably move right into kissing after you come back up. Then you can go from there.

I haven't seen the term PIV used before. "Penis In Vagina"?

Evil,

Do a search on semen flavour test and you will find some stuff. Dome foods are very detectable and others not so much. Semen is a blood product and what the man consumes will show up in his semen an hour or so later. Things I have definitely identified include vanilla, coffee, asparagus, brussel sprouts, fish, cheese and, most noticeable of all, Thai or other very spicy food. I once had my throat burned a few hours after dining at a Thai restaurant.

Nothing makes semen taste good to me. Both the flavour and the consistency took me a long while to get accustomed to but I consider the French Arts to be requisite to full erotic skills. The Greek Arts, another topic.

I do not know of medical studies on this but flavour of semen has been a topic of discussion for a long time. There is mention in some Roman mythology and the Bourbon court of France was rampant with stories that led many of the men to consult nutritionists.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;221936]NOTHING he eats has any effect upon how it tastes!!
Jeez! Just make sure he is properly hydrated and get over it.[/QUOTE]

Actually it is proven that what a man eats does effect the taste of his cum. If your man drinks a lot of alcohol or coffee it will be bitter. You can sweeten it up by making him eat fruits like pineapple, mangos and bananas.

Put your source up there, kensgirl. For all the scientific and medical studies I've read (every one I can get my hands on) said NO.

I'm seeking definitive studies wherein the chemical components of a food's flavor show up in a man's semen when he's properly hydrated as most men aren't. Yes, I'm not much for the Greek Arts either.

I doubt that medical studies have ever been done. Though non-scientific that link below is a BBC report that addresses the taste though not the chemical composition. I wonder who would fund the research.

www.bbc.co.uk/sn/humanbody/truthaboutfood/sexy/spermtaste.shtml - 16k -

Probably some guy?

Personally, I've never done anything BUT swallow. It's just easier. It's not the "impact at the back of the throat" that makes me gag. It's the bitter salty bluhhhh taste. So, I just swallow in the back of my throat as he cums, that way I don't get the taste and I can pace myself.

But in 40 years I have never had any man taste any different than any other beyond more or less "salty" which was due to his level of hydration rather than what specific item/s he had ingested.

I've actually read that if you eat pineapples or drink fruit juices that your semen with taste different. it also goes on to say that drinking liquor and dairy products will make it taste bitter! Am all about pleasing my girl so i would want her to enjoy every bit of our experience which is why i did the research..

[quote=CJ23;226615]I've actually read that if you eat pineapples or drink fruit juices that your semen with taste different. it also goes on to say that drinking liquor and dairy products will make it taste bitter! Am all about pleasing my girl so i would want her to enjoy every bit of our experience which is why i did the research..[/quote] I have never noticed any foul; just difference of the salty taste. However, a while ago a poster here did a diet analysis; one week ate normal with spicy foods & the next he altered the diet to more fruits and less spicy, no garlic, and less meat. He did the taste test since his girlfriend refused. He said; there was a difference where it appeared more palatable with the less spicy foods. Honestly any woman who is into fellatio with her partner is not all that concerned--it never phased me or was a turn off. The only noticeable difference is the consistency based on fluid intake; being properly hydrated.

EEK, again I say I totally admire you.

OP, suck it up and swallow. Wait, was that a pun? :D

As for the semen thing, I would never just lick it up after I've rubbed one out, but I would snowball with a chick or lick my own goo off her body. That's totally hot!

The semen has to be sanctified by contact with my female sex partner, otherwise it has no interest to me.

Of course, this is all very hypothetical as I can't deliver the goods, but it's a nice sounding hypothetical and I'm pretty sure I would eat my own goo off a wonderful pair of glistening breasts or buttocks.

Anyways....

Well, after my post on page 1 of this thread here is an update...

It was totally unplanned in a quickie session over the weekend. Wifey comes really quick so I received a lot of foreplay from her - nearly to the point of coming.

I then went down on her for a few minutes and we swapped positions and she rode me facing away. It only took her a couple of minutes before she had a big orgasm and a minute or so after that I came. This is where I got shocked. She just lifted herself off me, slid backwards and planted herself over my face - not actually/deliberately over my mouth - and just moved around. She pretty much rubbed over my whole face and, yes, over my lips and mouth. While she did this she just went down on me and I went rock hard. She didn't quite give a proper BJ but did get it in and rub her tongue around.

It was an amazing experience. We both tasted each other and ourselves - and that was real unselfish sharing.

The taste, for me, was not unpleasant. It was alien but most probably something you could get used to.

I asked her what made her do it and she just said she'd been trying to build up the courage for a long time and just decided in the spur of the moment to do it while she was coming down from her orgasm. She said she was surprised she actually went through with it but was glad she did. I have now broached the topic of me coming in her, sucking it out and snowballing. She's going to think about that as it could involve more semen being in her mouth than by BJ'ing at the end.

Looking forward to the next time...!

You could either, close your eyes and ram it deep into your throat then swallow it as soon as he releases it so you wouldn't have to bother with the taste. Or you could tell it to him and make him understand how you feel about it. Bottomline is, he should respect how you feel about it and not be selfish about having his way in satisfying his pleasure.

Nice update mintajalepi. Spur of the moment is the only time it happens with us. Usually if we think about it then it doesn't happen. In the middle of sex thinking of tasting my cum after I finish is so thrilling, but once I cum I no longer have any desire to go down on her. There are times that she will push my head down and want me to give her oral and so I do it. Once I get started, it is so much fun and I really don't mind the taste. I'm glad I've been able to taste my cum.

Ya. Once you take in mouth, you are sure to get taste and smell , whether you swallow it or spit it. Try to enjoy it . slowly you would be habituated and start enjoying. Learn to deep throat. You will have less taste and he would enjoy the most.

Cumming in her mouth is great for me. She doesn't care for it much so it doesn't happen very often. The first time I came in a girls mouth was a surprise and she didn't like it. We were out on a picnic and after some titty fu*king, she took my cock in her mouth and started to go to work. I was so enjoying it and then I could feel she was getting me to a point of ejaculation. I didn't want her to stop and so I just let her take me to completion. I really should have warned her, but didn't. Getting a full blow job to completion was such a new thing and I just wanted to see what it was like. Well that slowed down ever getting a complete blowjob again. She eventually did bring me to completion again and I warn her every time so she can either finish by hand, or in her vagina, or her mouth.

[quote]Men want to cum in a woman's mouth but will NEVER allow cum in their mouths (not from other guys but, for example, kissing a woman's fingers after a hand-job).
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are you kidding?! I love even the idea of him passing a lil creampie to me! This generalization misses about 50% of the mark.

Following on from my previous posts I can say that we have achieved a relatively high degree of success on this topic.

We've gotten as far as say 50% of the time where we will have a mixture of bodily fluids in our own mouths.

It is always directly after intercourse. It's usually with her on top as she is the one who then decides whether she wants to go ahead with it or not. I'm happy for it to be whenever so I always leave the on-the-spot decision to her.

Generally always in cowgirl with her facing away but we have done it after regular cowgirl. If she feels like it we now go into a 69 - mostly her on top but we have tried on occasion with me on top and a sideways 69.

The main point here is that she is now willing to take me into her mouth and provide a proper BJ whereas before she would just lick around the outside. She was apprehensive with the taste at first but she says - in her words - it's an acquired taste just like stilton cheese. She is now fine with the taste and texture.

She will provide a BJ prior to intercourse and she is willing to allow me to cum in her mouth but she is still a tad unsure about how to handle the "spurt". Due to that we have not progressed as far as that.... yet...

So, I think there are two main considerations here. Firstly, there is the getting-used-to the taste and texture (acclimatisation!) and then secondly getting over the spurting. The second one is the harder of the two as there is no real way to gently try it (as far as I am aware).

On a separate but related note, we both now love to give and receive oral. In my case I have always done so and I prefer to give oral more than anything else. She has seen this site and we both love the 69 positions Face Off (http://www.sexinfo101.com/faceoff.shtml) and Under The Sink (http://www.sexinfo101.com/underthesink.shtml). We will incorporate them the next time she’s in the mood.

Oh my, a woman swallows my cum and I'm lost, I am hers! Ha ha! I love it when she swallows! So do a lot of men, if not most, I suppose.

One sex advice person wrote that a couple could get past the "ickiness" idea by having the guy cum and leave it in a pool, say on his belly or hers, and then the man and woman share it, finger dipping, taste testing, like it is an hors d'oeuvre. The idea is to share the experience.

I've never tried that but my wife has always enjoyed swallowing a man's cum. I've enjoyed having her sit on my face after I cum in her vagina, can't miss the taste of my own cum that way. Come on guys, it's not bad.

I've kissed my wife after she swallowed another man's cum. Couldn't taste him but it was exciting; I had watched him do it!

my new man wants to come in my mouth,i am scared as had bad gagging experience with a previous partner.I want 2 please my new man so will try the suggestions and see if i enjoy it.I know my man will love it if i suprise him and let him blow his load in my mouth

he should just do it and not tell you ..lol.. Suprise ..suprise..:)

as a man i can tell you it's a great gift to let him cum in your mouth, it's the ultimate acceptance i guess. If you can manage to swallow without gagging you'll be the boss from that day on xD

Me and my gf have talked about the taste alot (she swallows) and the taste can be very different she says, fruit does make it taste sweeter, also vitamine c tablets make it sweeter and also the time inbetween orgasms makes a huuge difference. If i havent had an orgasm in a few days she loves the taste, but if for example it's the second orgasm the same night she refuses to let me cum in her mouth because then it taste foul she says (so i guess it's the sperm-ratio in the cum)

hope this helped :)

p.s. make him warn you when he's about to cum, it makes no difference for his orgasm and makes a big difference for you!

Taste affected by food

I don't know of any research, but if I eat, say, asparagus, there's no mistaking the odor of ALL bodily fluids, and it ain't pleasant. Taste is largely affected by smell, so . . .

I've tasted myself, either from my wife's vagina or her hand. I suppose the vagina shouldn't count, because that's a mixture of both of us. But from her hand--tasted OK to me!

And no, that doesn't make me weird or gay.

The taste is acquired.

The taste is acquired.

As for accepting his ejaculate in the mouth, ask him to alert you when he is about to cum, and/or you can place a finger on the underside of the shaft and against the urethra. Doing this will give you a second to raise your tongue so that the tip of it is against the roof of your mouth. As he ejaculates the semen will squirt against the bottom of the tongue and not fly back to the rear of your mouth. If the woman has a tendency to gag, this will prevent it from happening. There will be less taste because the semen is not landing on the top surface where all the taste buds are.

As for swallowing, this is an individual decision. Some women will and some will not. Do not force the issue if she is not interested.

If she is interested in doing so, she can take a sip of water to mix with the semen on the way down.

If she will let you cum in her mouth and wants to spit it out, you should have tissues or a damp washcloth handy.

-doc

need

I would rob a bank for a swallow....

Be careful what you wish for.

Unsure of that? Just watch the TV show "Scared Straight" in which Pre- and teens are locked up in jail for a day or two.

-doc

Taste Buds Adapt to What They Are Accostumed to Tasting

You can learn to like the taste, though it will take a while of taking some cum everyday. It won't taste as bad if he doesn't eat things like meat, cheese, milk, eggs, and greasy and salty foods. A vegan, rawfoodists diet, without the salt and grease, will taste best. As for the squirting, have him squirt under your tongue to avoid gagging/choking. Also, let him go on your cheek and face so long as he is watching it. This is really nice and it may suffice him enough to not insist on going in your mouth.

~ Sex, only God could have made it.

OOPS

That was meant for the original poster. This is what I don't like about this forum, you can't change things after you click save. Sorry about that.

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