I've been seeing a new guy for a few months now. We're planning on speding a weekend together in a few weeks. He's been asking alot of very speific questions about what sexual positions I enjoy, whether or not I will give and/or receive oral sex. I appreciate all of his questions and willingness to make our relationship better, but he is trying too hard to please me?
Wed, 12/19/2007 - 01:54
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Is my boyfriend trying too hard?
[QUOTE=loislane;202794]I've been seeing a new guy for a few months now. We're planning on speding a weekend together in a few weeks. He's been asking alot of very speific questions about what sexual positions I enjoy, whether or not I will give and/or receive oral sex. I appreciate all of his questions and willingness to make our relationship better, but he is trying too hard to please me?[/QUOTE]
He's trying to communicate with you! He's looking for some guidelines of what not to try and what is acceptable. Obviously, he is not sure of what is good or not for you. Call it a scouting mission.:) It's all okay as long as he is NOT wierding(sp) you out!
> "Generally speaking, are you a tactile or an orally oriented person?"
I enjoy both. Sometimes one and then the other; sometimes as a dynamic duo.
> "How do you prefer to reciprocate?"
As above, taking lots of time.
Yes it is a scouting mission but as done by a neophyte.
A more highly experienced person would ask such questions as:
"Generally speaking, are you a tactile or an orally oriented person?"
"How do you prefer to reciprocate?"
If he is irritating you, he is trying too hard. Tell him to back off and things will develop.
Thank you, Doc (making a note of his answers).