I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and he does not like sex in anyway. Imp not conceded but I am a hottie and never had a problem with this or getting men. I am supportive and try to talk with him about the issues he has brought to my attention such as; his father passing away three years ago and he doesn’t want to get too close to me in fear of getting hurt.
Don’t you think after this long he would want someone that will be there to help him through this?? For future relationships hand all? Before me he had 4 previous relationships and in all of them was cheated on. HMM can he be lacking something for all 4 girls to cheat on him (like sex)?? He is affectionate with me all the time and lets me know that he wants me and wants to be with me but this is a problem for me if there is no sex at all. I mean no sex, no oral, foreplay, no touching (my boobs) and they are great boobs!!!! He does not like lingerie, sexual comments, or conversations even with the guys. I want to help him not just for us but for himself this is an issue that was there before me and I have never gone through this. I am patient and not pushy but it weighs on him and shows. If I try to bring it up like a friend reaching out he gets mad. I know this is touchy for guys but he is depressed and I think in some way if he had some sex, maybe a blowjob or a courtesy hand job he may feel better. Isn’t that normal??? I have had a kinky sex life when in relationships and tried it all to spice it up for him and he does nothing.
What can I do??? Should I try??? Can he talk something??? Should I walk away??

PS: He is not gay!!!!!!!! I think, he says no!!
He is sexual at all, I am and in front of his boys he doesn’t act any different. We are both attractive 30 year olds, have great lives, everything!!!

Just no sex!!!!

I am open to anything he is my friend as well