Hi everyone. My boyfriend gets more aroused while having sex by pulling my hair. Is this normal? :confused:
Fri, 09/04/2009 - 22:35
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My boyfriend gets more aroused by pulling my hair - Is this normal?


Quite normal SpicyGirl69. As long as you are willing to allow him to do it. You might find it more arousing also. While not having sex you could talk about how hard he might be allowed to pull. My wife enjoys having her hair pulled. When we were dating she would ask me to do it. It was strange at first but I found it to be a turn on for me to do something that turns her on more.
turn about is fair play so why not crunch his coconuts
That is totally normal. My girlfriend goes crazy if I pull her hair. Not hard, just a nice tug so she knows I can control her. She also enjoys doing mostly the same thing to me, although she is slightly less dominant about it (she likes to submit not to control).
Ignore Captain unless your boyfriend tells you he's into what was suggested.
Which actually leads into a good point. Everybody has their turn-ons, and it would be good for the two of you to talk about what turns each of you on and what doesn't. Grabbing the partner's hair isn't an unusual turn-on. If you're not into him pulling your hair, discuss it with him. I'm sure there are other things he can do.
My bf loves to pull my hair, its normal... men know that a female's head is sensitive and for many females having their hair pulled is arousing...
It is normal - because few things in human sexuality can be considered abnormal. Hair grabbing and pulling is a power thing that many couples enjoy.
If you enjoy it - fine. IF you do not enjoy having your hair pulled - also fine. You DON'T have to agree to everything your partner wants.
Me, I absolutely HATE having my hair pulled. Especially after getting my hair done and spending $$$ on it. Hands in hair - possible under certain conditions but pulling - NO!
I looooooooove having my hair pulled. Between that, him talking talking dirty to me and him biting me, I'm realizing I'm not as "prim and proper" as I thought I was.
Hair pulling...steady and passionate without it being painful...is such a turn on for me. This is especially true during the act. It's a personal issue - some like it and some don't.
Hair pulling, is nice! It's a personal preference that adds to the mix. If you like it great and if you don't, then tell him. This adds a little spice to the act for me.
Hey!
If I've just spent money to get my hair 'done' then he'd better keep his hands OFF!
I personally love getting my hair pulled, found it out because my last lover tried it and omg I loved it. As long as he didn't pull too hard... Also I have a bit of a hair fettish. I play with my lover's hair all the time, I donno I just love the feel of it :) Also when he's going down on me I always have my hands in his hair, and when it feels good I tighten my grip, it's a reaction that lets him know what feels good :) And hey if hair pulling is wierd then I'm super wierd because I also like to scrach (although I don't have nails right now) when he's on top, and bite, and nibble, and kiss, and what ever else ;) Just do what you like and if your partner has an issue with it don't do it, find something else, and visa versa, you gotta speek up and say "ouch" or "please don't do that" or something to let him know that you don't like that... and if you do have fun with it, never be afraid of trying new things ;)
Well, most girls I know really enjoyed having their haired pulled but it really depends. All girls are different.
I would think it's normal. I have long hair and love it when my husband wraps it around his hand and pulls it (he doesn't seem to mind it either).The hair pulling along with everything else just makes it more heated for the both of us.
I agree with INT1103 if your not into it then I would suggest you talk with your partner about it.
Hairs are a part of sex tool.
1. He holds my pony while bj or dt
2. He carresses my hair , put fingers thro it while regular vaginal sex.
3. But rarely, holds pony in doggy.
4. I excite him by sliding my hair on / around his erect penis. Makes him mad.
My Boyfriend Bites my hair when doing me from behind... i dont mind it. But when he pulls so hard that i worry my hairs gunna be gone before he cums ... well it aint so much of a turn on. Just speak to him about it and see how it goes. To be honest its more of a power thing. Guys who generally like to be on top and dominating can pull hair, grip tightly whatever, they just like to show you whos boss... thats only from experience though. You never know.
Can be rather hot if he doesnt pull it to hard hun. Just tell him to be gentle when he does it, and try to get him to take you from behind cause when he pulls your head back with your hair your back bends and he really does pind into the right spots
with most guys this is normal some like to feel in control if you don't like it then you should find something that pleases you both
yes it is normal ..its considered kinky & i love it when my bf pulls my hair