im really nervous i have so many questions will it hurt do u bleed alot and what can i do to make it where he enjoy's it more than he wants????Can anyone please help me out?
Fri, 06/09/2006 - 07:37
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My b.f isnt a virgin but i am and i want to but im scared....
!!!Anyone out there with a comment?SOMEONE LEAVE A COMMENT PLEASE!!!!!!!!
Sexystacey, what you need first and foremost is to decide how old you are. On one post (Brandyeschickchat) you claim to be 14 and size D and on another of your posts requiring advice about your first time you claim to be 16 and your boy friend 17.
So how old are you?
i am truly 14
i juss thought i was to young to be askin these question's!!!
No problem! Although I personally feel you are a bit young it is best to be truthful and then people can answer accordingly, much objection can be taken if your story changes between threads.
I would not like to comment on the pain to much being a guy and all but will make some comments based on info I have read in different places and told to me. (best answers on this would probabley come from Brandye herself though)Maybe a PM to her would help.
The pain experienced differs as each person has a different pain threshold and the hymen may have been stretched/broken through other activities, horse riding etc. The bleeding itself, I cannot comment on as I have not been in a situation with a virgin. SORRY!
There is a thread under NEW TO SEX... thats called FIRST TIME PAIN AND BLEEDING.... gives plenty of womens first accounts.
I also answered in one of your many other posts that if you aren't ready... then dont have sex. If you are freaking out then it wont be enjoyable at all and if you're b/f doesn't under this... then oh well.
Women have A LOT more pressures on them when it comes to sex than men do its seems... as far as consequences.
if you are 14 you really should wait. being that young may also make it more painful your first time. maybe you can try doing other things for a while before actually having intercourse.
It doesn't hurt as bad as many people say. You will bleed most likely. The harder he pushes and the faster he goes, the more it will bleed. make sure you tell him if it hurts or if its uncomfortable.
Its your first time so of course you're not going to be a sex goddess and he shouldn't be expecting you to. You're going to be nervous so it won't be like "oh my god that felt amazing"
It will be amazing if you're ready and you love eachother, but its not going to be like you see in the movies where theyre both perfect at having sex their first time.
Good luck and have fun!
Look, you are 14. For all women the physical aspects loom large until the first one is over. At 14, however, there are many much more important considerations than will it hurt. In Chick Chat, read Am I Ready. You are likely not.
hey can i get some help, please, im still a virgin but my new girlfriend has slept with many men before im kinda nervous about my size as its probably just average and she seems to joke about large dicks sometimes, i feel we're gona have sex pretty soon but im REALLY worried about it all and whether ill be able to match up to her previous boyfriends