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My BF has a big dick and I have a hard time giving him oral....

Yes....the title of this blog says it all.

My BF has a big dick. In fact, the biggest I ever had. Bigger than I thought. And apparently my mouth gets tired easily to give him long enough oral until he cums.

I'm not making any of this up.

I went to my dentist recently. He had to put some kind of device in my mouth to keep in open. He said he had to use the "baby" ones 'cause my mouth is small.

I want to keep my BF happy. He loves oral. He LOVES oral. But unfortunately, my mouth gets tired very easily.

Can anyone help me? How can I exercise my mouth? I don't know.

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It is unnecessary to open your mouth wide. It is only necessary to open it wide enough for his penis to slip inside between your moisten lips. Your lips should wrap around your teeth so you do not scrape the skin of his penis.

By not opening wide or as far as you can, you will not tax and thus tire your jaw muscles. So, drop or relax your lower jaw and let him slip inside. If this does not work for you, then try limiting your excursion to only the Glans. This is the most sensitive area anyway and you can lick/lap the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin on the underside extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft).

Please read the following article listed in the Index:

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

Give this a try and report back. I hope this is of help.

My partner and I have a similar problem. It works pretty well for her to use some lube and polish her hands all around it before going for the finish with her mouth. Very rarely she's able to relax her jaw enough and goes down all the way surprising me if the angle is just right.

You know what, you should show your BF this message. I know it would stroke my ego! Heck, I'd probably get an even bigger erection just from the kudos! :D

I don't believe getting a bigger erection is what she wants; it's in handling the one she is already presented with. (But, I do know what you're saying.)

This is how I am too.

We're having a similar problem but my BF understands that I've problems with it and therefore it's ok for him that I don't give him a blowjob all the time.

you could just like it, suck on parts of it and stroke it. No need to swallow the whole knob. More to a blowjob than that you know! :D

You have worst problems.

Try just focusing on the head, that's the most sensitive part after all. Then you could just do the rest for short periods of time during without your mouth getting too tired. Try running your tounge around the base of the head and the hole at the top. Works for my boyfriend.

You can use your hand also to help when giving oral. Try some lube, I'm sure he'll like that.

Hands work the shaft and the mouth works the head.
And if he is really big feel free to come over and I will demo it for you in person ;-) lol

Hugs and Hissessss,
Maria

Unless he dislikes hands on the shaft. You will probably never be able to give him as good a hand job as he can give himself.

well mi gf had the same problem i like oral but we both do it at the same time so she gets on top like 69 u know and that way shes on top of my dick so she doesnt get as tired as she used to and she says that she just lock her jaws and do all the work with the tong
hey and i have a problem my dick i thing its big for mi girl too and i hope u can help me by telling me how it stoped hurting u cusz everithing is good when im doing the gjob but she wants to ride me and she says that it hurts cuz mu dick is big is 8 inches and she says that it hurts so i really hope u answer me back to see if u have the answer cuz i love when she gets on top u know well see ya hope to hear from u soon later take care and try wat i said

lol PCRTSSS is your full stop button broken .....................

Maybe you could apply some slippery and tasty massage oil to his penis while you hand stroke him up and down the shaft, keeping your lips & tongue moving over the "head" of his penis only. This way you don't get as tired because he is so large, he gets that great feeling all over his big dick, and the visual of you going down on him and swallowing his cum if you do. Now if you don't like to swallow, you could let him cum on your breasts/face/stomach (rub it all over you..big turn on). This could be a very happy ending for you both. You are so sweet to your boyfriend trying to accomodate him and wanting to pleasing him with oral. He is "very lucky" to have "you". Send me a private message and tell me if it works for U 2, or if you want some more sexy ideas to keep your bf hooked on you (from a mans perspective). I hope this keeps you and your bf together for a long time. Cheers!!

Unless he dislikes hands on the shaft. You will probably never be able to give him as good a hand job as he can give himself.

Probably not dlb, but it still works.

You're right, it doesn't feel the same. But from my experience, having a partner stimulate you is better than doing it yourself, even if you are able to do it "better" by yourself. It's all part of the experience. Just letting yourself go and letting someone else take control.

Ah yes Ratach, but I believe the discussion is about fellatio, which is oral stimulation of the penis and people are suggesting manual stimulation instead. It doesn't feel the same.

The original poster wanted to know how to stimulate her boyfriend's penis with her mouth.

Yes, and if you can't do it all with your mouth, use your hands.

You can also try using a male masturbate (pocket pussy) to help with oral sex. This will give him a better sensation than just using your hands. You use the kind that have an open end, which will leave you with a few inches to work orally... making it much easier. I have TMJ, performing oral sex for more than a few minuets hurts & can cause my jaw to lock. So this really helps us out. :D

I have never met a woman whose jaw didn't get tired while performing the head bob with a penis in her mouth. In order for the man to fully enjoy what a woman (or another man) can do for him orally she should stick to only oral stimulation of the penis. There is more to a good blowjob than simply putting the penis in your mouth. There is a tongue that can be used for licking the length of the shaft. The most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum and in my case the lower extreme of the frenulum is the special spot-lick and flick the frenulum, tease the glans. Kiss and suckle the shaft and the head.

The hands are best employed to stimulate the scrotum, perineum, anus, thighs, lower abdomen, buttocks and nipples giving the man a more complete blowjob experience. I believe i have already covered this in detail earlier in the thread.

Sure you can give a handjob and call it a blowjob, but that doesn't mean it's really a blowjob. And don't cook a hamburger on a grill and try to tell me it's barbecue either.

[QUOTE=dlb;239212]I have never met a woman whose jaw didn't get tired while performing the head bob with a penis in her mouth. In order for the man to fully enjoy what a woman (or another man) can do for him orally she should stick to only oral stimulation of the penis. There is more to a good blowjob than simply putting the penis in your mouth. There is a tongue that can be used for licking the length of the shaft. The most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum and in my case the lower extreme of the frenulum is the special spot-lick and flick the frenulum, tease the glans. Kiss and suckle the shaft and the head.

The hands are best employed to stimulate the scrotum, perineum, anus, thighs, lower abdomen, buttocks and nipples giving the man a more complete blowjob experience. I believe i have already covered this in detail earlier in the thread.

Sure you can give a handjob and call it a blowjob, but that doesn't mean it's really a blowjob. And don't cook a hamburger on a grill and try to tell me it's barbecue either.[/QUOTE]

But last time I added BBQ sauce...

Come down to N.C. We'll see if we can get you some real barbecue and a proper BJ:D

[QUOTE=dlb;239212]I have never met a woman whose jaw didn't get tired while performing the head bob with a penis in her mouth. In order for the man to fully enjoy what a woman (or another man) can do for him orally she should stick to only oral stimulation of the penis. There is more to a good blowjob than simply putting the penis in your mouth. There is a tongue that can be used for licking the length of the shaft. The most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum and in my case the lower extreme of the frenulum is the special spot-lick and flick the frenulum, tease the glans. Kiss and suckle the shaft and the head.

The hands are best employed to stimulate the scrotum, perineum, anus, thighs, lower abdomen, buttocks and nipples giving the man a more complete blowjob experience. I believe i have already covered this in detail earlier in the thread.

Sure you can give a handjob and call it a blowjob, but that doesn't mean it's really a blowjob. And don't cook a hamburger on a grill and try to tell me it's barbecue either.[/QUOTE]

I didn’t mean put it on there, lick it a few times & call it a blow job lol that would be a sad excuse for a blow job. I meant when you get to the point where you are trying to get a good rhythm going & you are using your hand to stroke the shaft (if you aren't able to go down all the way), use the masturbator instead of your hand. It would be a different sensation than using a hand on the shaft every time you perform oral, when you are unable to take the whole thing into your mouth. Not every man would like this, but some do. Yes you need to do all the other things that you would normally do during a blow job & not use this as a short cut. I meant this more towards people who have an actual problem, not a little jaw fatigue or people who are too lazy.

Why dont you try to pleasure him in some other way until he comes out, well if you cant take giving him a BJ any longer tell him I'm sure he would understand it. Why dont you use some boosters for it I think there's some product for giving a BJ.