I'll just make a list. ;)
1. (Previously asked) I just got my tongue pierced. Does anyone have any techniques to using it in oral sex on my boyfriend?
2. There are QUITE a lot of things that I'm willing and that I desire to do sexually. My boyfriend is somewhat prudish? or maybe he leads me on that he is because he doesn't want ME to think that HE's a freak. Either way, I don't know how to approach him about some of the sexual things I find completely erotic. Any suggestions on how I suggest to him things like him coming on my tits or my face?
3. I really don't know why but whenever I start to enjoy oral sex I always pull my boyfriend up. *MAYBE* it is because it takes quite awhile to get him off and sometimes I'm wishing he'd hurry up and come and so to be considerate I pull him up so that he doesn't feel that way. BUT, we're talking a considerable time difference. Like.. after 2 minutes I'm ready to pull him up yet I'll go down on him for 45 minutes. I really do want to enjoy it. And I can tell that he does want me to enjoy it, but it's really quite hard to let myself relax.
4. Similarly, I tend to get EXTREMELY wet with fingering. As far as I know, every man I've been with enjoys it, but it makes me uneasy. One time I actually had female ejaculation. It was as if an 8 ounce glass of water had been spilled. It embarassed me because it had never happened before and my first reponse was that it was urine. It was odorless and I later read up and realized that it was near impossible for that to be it BUT I'm scared that it will happen again because even though it's a sign that they're doing something good... it's not real common. It happened with a person I'm no longer with and I'm not sure if I should bring it up to my new boyfriend to prepare him or if that would be a bad idea as if it doesn't happen with him he'll feel like he cannot please me as my old boyfriend did. Any suggestions on how to deal with my fear of female ejaculation.. and getting really wet in general?
5. Is there ANY way to titty f*ck with 34B tits? I've been pretty unsuccessful (although guys seeing their penis between a girl's pair regardless of the actual stroking motion seems to be pretty popular!) But I want to do the real thing!
Okay I think I'm done. Only some of these should go under this category but I wanted to have all the advice in one thread, sorry. And thanks!
-p-i-n-k-y-
Ok Pinky, best bet is ask all these thing in different posts. So that you get the best responces.
I will answer a couple tho.
1) Adam and Eve makes a vibrating toungue stud for about $40. us dollars. That may be fun to try.
2) I used to have the same problem. I found that with time and communication he came around to the kinky side of things:) Just talk to him openly and tell him that some of the things you want you think he would really like too.
Live life.
Good luck.
1. I dont know any :P
2. If you are worried if he will think your a "freak" I would suggest bringing things up in the heat of the moment so as to not seem that you were thinking about it all day :P
3. All I can say is, enjoy what hes giving you
you shouldnt (in most cases) need to feel rushed during sex, you want to take your time and just enjoy ALL there is to enjoy ;)
4. I dont think there would be a way to make yourself less wet, but I know my GF when she cums there is a LOT of fluid. I LOVE it, its the greatest feeling for me, maybe your BF would like it also?
5. If your breasts are too small for this I cant say there s much you can do other than making them bigger, however I would let him do it, let him take control and have him squeeze them together.
Overall I would say you just need to have more communication with your guy about sex. just tell him how you feel and what you want, ask him how he feels abut what you want and ask what he wants.
Thanks for answering
I have trouble communicating about anything serious, he always makes fun of me because I won't look at him whenever I bring up anything that opens myself up to him. He has to hold my hands so I can't cover my face ;) I will try the suggestions though, thanks!