Hi all, here is my first post and I hope you all can help.
So my wife and I have learned that she can have sometimes a 2-3 minute orgasm with a climax at the end. Needless to say, she absolutely loves having those. Who wouldn't? Here's the thing though...we can never really find a rhyme or reason to making it happen again. We agree it seems to be when she is more horny than usual, but that doesn't always hold true. It can happen with her on top, on bottom, from oral sex, from lots of foreplay or none. We just can't figure it out, but she has had enough we know it isn't a fluke. Is there any tips, ideas, or ways we are getting this to happen that we don't realize, that anyone could help with making it happen every time, or as close as possible to that?
Thank you.
[color=blue]it's more on her than you......i think it's a more mental thing than anything else
next time it randomly happens, she will have to record everything that is going on......mental & physical......if it took a lot of foreplay and teasing (not touching genitals and such) then do that again
there is no easy answer to this......but i would advise you to not try so hard and enjoy your time with her.......if it happens, it happens......if not, then not......when you put so much pressure on yourselves, it tends not to happen......enjoy the intimacy as it is and enjoy being with each other.......trust me, when you don't focus on one particular thing, that's when things normally start to happen[/color]
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