Many girls are able to cum in rapid succession. However, many others have one large orgasm. Still, a common ground apparently exists, such that a skilled lover in cunnilingus, fingering or sex can make any girl cum over and over again.
I am looking for advice from anyone who considers themselves good at causing multiple orgasms. How do you do it? Have you done it to many girls? Is it more about the foreplay? The technique?
I am able to get my girlfriend off quickly with oral sex, but I'd like to spend more time on it and get her to cum again and again and again, into the double digits. I'm not sure how to approach this besides constant cunnilingus, yet with making love, variability always works better. How do you guys do it?
And has anyone here ever made a girl cum in such a way that she was able to achieve the coveted continuous orgasm, in which she cums and cums and cums without any noticeable breaks in between?
I've read the stickies, so I'm hoping for something more than links to them.
Thanks.
I'm not sure how you can get MORE from the stickies that Dancin'Doc has posted and shared! The man should get some kind of award. If you are achieving what you are..that is fantastic!! Perhaps others will enlighten us and perhaps some will come out of the closet and tell us how they do it!! smirking big time...
[QUOTE=HardNgood;178123]I'm not sure how you can get MORE from the stickies that Dancin'Doc has posted and shared! The man should get some kind of award. If you are achieving what you are..that is fantastic!! Perhaps others will enlighten us and perhaps some will come out of the closet and tell us how they do it!! smirking big time...[/QUOTE]
Well, I don't want to underplay the importance of his work. I just want to get some testimonials and tips from a multitude of people.
> I'm not sure how you can get MORE from the stickies that Dancin'Doc has posted and shared!
First, one of the important concepts presented in at least one is the fact that guys do not make women have orgasms.
Second, another important concept is that each of us is responsible for our own. {Thank Brandye for those important words.)
With both of these "rules" in mind it seems that if we want to have our partner achieve multiple orgasms then she has to be agreeable, also, first.
Going along with this is that each of us reach climaxes slightly differently. So, while men and women all masturbate in essentially the same ways for our respective genders, each one of us has some variation(s) to the theme that are unique and specific to each. In order for there to be multiple orgasms, a guy has to learn what his partner requires; so, it is not about what it is that any of us do, it is what each of our partners requires that we do.
> I'd like to spend more time on it and get her to cum again and again and again, into the double digits.
It is a laudable goal to devote lots of time to our partner's arousal, particularly because the fairer gender requires more time and attention to this detail for which we guys find beneficial, also. What is not realistic is the typical male viewpoint of wanting to go for broke. Just how far into the double digits do you want to venture??
It has been stated more than once on this Board that "weathering" several orgasms without rest is physically tiring and mentally exhausting--and in the end not as enjoyable as the guy would wish. For many this is clearly not a case for the more the merrier. That said, learn what it is that turns her on, delivers the "goods", and then how many goods are sufficient at any given time.
It is rare that I can orgasm multiple times... it's like once I do...everything shuts off lol. Only if there is a good break inbetween can I usually do it a second time.
My b/f can get me off pretty easily w/ oral..and he just keeps going afterwards....probably thinking what you are thinking....that it'll happen again a few min later...but I get to sensitive and what felt amazing 15 sec ago now feels either painful or annoying! lol
I have read on here women who say they have many through out a sex session but like you mentioned... I don't know if it's many little ones...and some women just have one big one! or if those women are having lots of big ones! lol
And even if I do manage a second one, it's no where as intense as the first one I had.
I'd rather have one big than several "mini" ones.
I agree that it is exhausting and tiring....I couldn't endure the time it took to come 10 times lol, but my feelings on sex aren't always up to par w/ a lot of people on here.... I have better things to do!! LOL
I come only 10 times on a bad day! Some are bigger, some are smaller but all are GREAT!
She has to be both relaxed and aroused. She also has to know to just ride it through and keep on going even if it seems "painful" or too "sensitive". Breathe deeply and relax even more. Enjoy the feeling. Orgasms are both good and good for you!
Men can help induce and assist this by incorporating varying body worship and foreplay techniques into actual coitus according to what the lady has shown to be her preference. Changing positions while remaining "inside" is also recommended. Even small variances can bring new sensations. Experiment.