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> every time i make my girl cum she dosent want anymore and i do

Many women are capable of more than one orgasm in a string (multiple orgasms), each separated by a Refractory Period or down time that depending upon the individual can last from several seconds to several minutes. That said, she may or may not want any more and this is her call, not yours. The same holds true for you in reverse; however, the male Refractory Period can last from about ten minutes to half an hour depending upon age, drive, and how each of us is "wired".

> i want to be pleased over and over at least 5 or 6 times before im done

There are two distinctly different scenarios described, above. I find it amazing that you can have 5 or 6 multiple orgasms. This is normally only doable in post pubescent boys. Congratulations if you can! She can help you to enjoy additional climaxes by hand and/or mouth or with what I refer to as the "dynamic duo"--both.

> what can i do that will make her want to cum more than once

First, ask her. Only she knows. Communication and feedback are the two most important aspects of a relationship; second, we cannot give orgasms away. Each person is responsible for his/her own. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help our partner achieve them. Third, very often the clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch immediately before and sometimes after a climax. Regardless of when, use the indirect approach by covering the clitoris with the inner labia and stimulating her thru them. You can also stroke, massage, or do other caresses near the clitoris (like the labia) that will involve the clitoris indirectly and this less intense form of stimulation will often be sufficient to bring about the next orgasm.

Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other. Explore and learn together in partnership.

> she wants to stop but only after i get off but i want more after im done so can anyone please help me on this subject i need feed back as soon as possible

Asked and answered. You cannot dictate your wishes and desires upon your partner; although, you can work with her and learn how to pleasure each other's erogenous zones effectively. As mentioned, each person is different and each episode is different. Also, much of what she wants to do or is capable of doing, in addition to what is mentioned, above, is governed by hormones. Things change throughout the month.

I recommend that the two of you begin reading all of the articles listed in the Index and then discussing each one in turn. Next, add the information to what each of you already knows. Knowledge is empowering.

Your concerns are addressed in more than one article.

Bottom line: If she is not interested or able to climax more than once, then do not make demands. Simply ask her to help you have more orgasms in between your down times until you are finished or wiped out. During your down time, keep fooling around and making out in order to maintain a threshold level of arousal.

When and if she is ready and wanting additional orgasms and you no longer can become erect, revert back to foreplay activities, as noted, above.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?