I put this in the pleasing him section because to me it seems as though this is were it should be.
I had sex last night (the most amazing sex i have ever had in my life.. he really knows his stuff!) and during misionary (pardon if i am not speling it right) i had my legs like up in the air either side of him, and i struggled to move my hips and stuff so i guess i was just kinda laying there..
Any personal tips to make this a little easier so it feels better for him??
[quote=rosebanks;231556]so do your feet have to be ON the bed to be able to move your hips and such?
i feel a bit of a lump just lying there you see![/quote]
Either...does not matter. Raise your hips up and move to or against him!!!
It does help if they are else how do you get leverage?
thats what i was wondering EEK.
i just want to be good for this guy. coz ive never been with anyone like him before. totaly amazing.
Phew. lol
Honestly, the things I find most pleasing from a woman during missionary is when they bring their knees up ad slightly in. This adds much more friction.
Also, flexing the PC muscle adds a nice little twist. Noises and claw marks on my back to know I am doing a good job, and just having her hands/lips on my chest or neck makes it even better.
If your trying to do the hip movement that I am thinking about, you are really going to have to work out your lower abs and your hips in order to do any movements.
Knees up, feet around where his knees or shins are flat on the bed then ROLL your pelvis (pelvic thrusts) to either move with or opposite his movement as the desire mounts. That is with to gently rock in tandem and then move opposite drawing back away while he's moving 'out' to increase the speed and length of movement as the orgasm approaches.
Alternatives involve wrapping your legs around his body or around his legs, sliding your legs and arms along his body, having him sit up more, or lean over you more depending upon which of your hotspots he's going for this time, flexing your internal muscles or rippling them to give an extra bit of thrill.
so do your feet have to be ON the bed to be able to move your hips and such?
i feel a bit of a lump just lying there you see!
[quote=EvilEvilKitten;231583]It does help if they are else how do you get leverage?[/quote]
Wrap your legs around his hips in a circular motion and your arms around his back...dangle!
Slide your pelvis against him with the rhythm or to your own!
Dangling? Think of his back, sera!!! We're not trying to kill him here.
[quote=EvilEvilKitten;231681]Dangling? Think of his back, sera!!! We're not trying to kill him here.[/quote]
I am small...lol! Tall but small...heck is that why he is bent over for weeks? LOL...
I'll swing from the ceiling...for fun...that why we go those nice pull ups and chin ups!
If one has good body strength you can hold yourself up...and remember those pelvic tilts we all did to tighten out butts years ago?
Same method can be used to move around him for Rose...similar to an imaginary pillow under the rump...
Yes, but I am not small. So I have to be more careful with my men.
Can't wear the teddybears out too fast!
Just a note here - I personally prefer that the woman thrust contrary to my movements. By that I mean that when I thrust down (or inward ) that she reciprocate by thrust upward or onto (?) me and when I withdraw my hips she should do the same.
Besides thrusting, which has been thoroughly discussed here already, I also enjoy it if my partner moves her hips from side to side-a swaying motion- and also I like it if she grinds her pelvis against me. You will have to use feet or legs on the bed or on your partner for these also Rose.
Another "missionary" variation that I enjoy very much is to be in the traditional missionary postion then have the woman slide her legs close between mine so my legs are on the outside. I can thrust gently, she can move her hips or rub her thighs together these last two bringing great pleasure to both. This is a good catch your breath, slow it down position and I have found that it provides very good clitoral stimulation in addition to stimulation of the outer part of the vagina.
[QUOTE=dlb;231751]Just a note here - I personally prefer that the woman thrust contrary to my movements. By that I mean that when I thrust down (or inward ) that she reciprocate by thrust upward or onto (?) me and when I withdraw my hips she should do the same.
Besides thrusting, which has been thoroughly discussed here already, I also enjoy it if my partner moves her hips from side to side-a swaying motion- and also I like it if she grinds her pelvis against me. You will have to use feet or legs on the bed or on your partner for these also Rose.
Another "missionary" variation that I enjoy very much is to be in the traditional missionary postion then have the woman slide her legs close between mine so my legs are on the outside. I can thrust gently, she can move her hips or rub her thighs together these last two bringing great pleasure to both. This is a good catch your breath, slow it down position and I have found that it provides very good clitoral stimulation in addition to stimulation of the outer part of the vagina.[/QUOTE]
great suggestion, we do do alot of different positions, were hes kind of on his side and i have one leg up kinda lying on my back??
hard to explain i guess but my oh my it felt good.! x
hmmm but I still prefer the internal hotspots ty, clits are ok but ... the others are better.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;231781]Yes, but I am not small. So I have to be more careful with my men.
Can't wear the teddybears out too fast!...hmmm but I still prefer the internal hotspots ty, clits are ok but ... the others are better.[/QUOTE]
I have had 5'9" - 5'10" women dangle from me and have had as much as 185 lbs. hanging on to the back of my neck. It was better for both of us once I got her to get her hands under my arms and behind my back. Papa bears are more durable.
Now as to your internal hotspots vs clit preference Evil Evil Kitten- You like variety and you like it all!
Now no snappy comebacks until after the 16th please or I won't be able to read them. Finally leaving in the morning and I would not be surprised if this site were blocked in Egypt.
Yes, perhaps, but since my teddybears are almost all papa bears who are wearing the weight of their years and whose pasts are catching up with them, I have to be more ...ahem... gentle that I might otherwise be so I bear my own weight which while not all that substantial is more than you'd expect given my figure and dress size. It's the muscle you see.
tbh, alls i want to do is learn how to move a little to make it feel better for him and so im not seen as a sack of spuds!
im finding it difficult to have me feet on the bed whilst hes doing it my legs automaticaly go towards to ceiling or over his shoulders so he can get in deeper!
Unless you want to remain a 'sack of spuds' you will have to work on it.
Try pouncing on him for a change.
haha not blocked
pouncing upon is great for pouncer and pouncee but if you want to be on bottom and your legs tend to wrap around him then you have a support point from which your lower body hangs. this will allow you to squirm and move your hips around. if its deep penetration and hard pummeling you like you can also get on top. that way you can control the depth and the pummeling
thing is though dlb , that he moved very fast with his hips (feels amazing tbh)
so like my legs tend to just go straight up into the air and i dont wrap my legs around him... this is were the problem comes in because my legs are up in the air i cant seem to move my hips x
Nuance, people, nuance! And having sex for 4 hours straight - hard pummeling? Yegods! Can we have mutual delight without all of the battlefield connotations?
Pouncing kittens is fun, cute, delightful - not likely to hurt some poor fellow, unless my aim is off. Ooopps. If I'm on the bottom, I move around quite a lot. 6 point harness time, fellas! My legs are around yours or on your back, shoulders, and my arms are all over the place doing this and that to you. And then I clamp onto you and we roll over - careful about falling off the bed which, while funny, does tend to break the mood.
You must be a shorter woman then, rosie, if you can't bend your knees and get your legs down to help you move.
i am yeah EEK , im just touching 5"1 at a push! haha.. so it is slightly difficult! although im gona try my hardest next time!
whatever you can do to get your legs not stopping him from going as deep as he can
Limber up then! Yoga is good for this.
I would suggest reaching around, grabbing his buttocks and pulling him into you in rythym with his thrusts...this is a big turn on for me. Also I love it when the girls sort of resists me. By this I mean squirming, gyrating her hips, not so much in rythym with me but out of rythym with me. That make since? Lastly squeeze you PC muscle (kegel) on his way out...that is awesome. Hope this helps...