Sex hurts! idk why but a guy going into me is like tearing me open cant stand pain each time not jst the 1st time and i never orgasm sometimes i cnt even get myself to orgasm and its frustrating. help???
Mon, 02/22/2010 - 03:25
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Brunella - you need to see an ob/gyn immediately!!! DO IT!!
Sex is not supposed to hurt so if it does something is very wrong and you need to get checked out. ASAP
Brunella,
This will not get better on its own. See your gyn as soon as possible and seek referral to a doctor specialising in sexual dysfunction in women.
I have been going to a gyn for polyocystic ovarian syndrome would that cause this? its as if pencil thin would be the max i could handle, any size AT ALL is like rubbing it hard to the point of blood although i havent bled yet. Im not that old only a teen so my mom cant know I continued to have sex, she only knows about one or two times. My doctor is not someone i would trust shes just constantly putting me on birth controls for my pcos but each time i react bad to them so i quit it. She normally pushes hard the whole "dont have sex!" thing so i cant really talk to her about it.
Look if your mother ever wants to have grandchildren, she'd better get over this whole 'don't have sex' thing of hers. You do need to get with your gyne and tell her how you 'reacted badly' to the BCPs - in detail - and chase this thing down.
http://www.bing.com/health/article/mayo-117619/Polycystic-ovary-syndrome...
I tried bringing it up today, awkward. But we didnt get far. She lectured on how sex was wrong and how i should never do it blah blah blah at my 1st mention of it and i kept trying to interrupt but she just kept going. Is there anything else i cld do? Could the pain be something minor? I know letting it go would be wrong but is there a chance itd be ok? i do wish i cld enjoy sex tho :( it hurts sooo bad i cried. My mom would never shut up enough to care anyway.
I said i reacted bad to the BCP's and the gyn said there were other methods but id prob react bad to those as well at the moment we are letting it go 2 months to see its severity before replanning action but my 2 months is almost up and still no period at all so there is nothing to really say how bad or so it is its a pretty bland result to bring in. :(
Sounds like Mom went into defense-mode. Okay. Let it go for now. Please understand that sex, on your own terms and when you desire it, is wonderful. But you with your PCOS may not be enjoying it now. No telling what the future will bring so please do not make your mother's problem with sex your problem. Just accept that Mom has some issue with it and move on.
Please study up on your condition, see link below, and Good Luck!
My doctor said pcos can sometimes go away after the 1st pregnancy. If i had gotten pregnant wouldnt of it atleast improved?
I was pregnant twice. First time i miscarried at 4 months cause i jst felt stressed and then randomly got a bad pain and miscarried. The second time, i miscarried a about almost 3 months same thing basically. Would that count toward how it shld of gotten better? Do you think whatever is going on caused me to loose my babies?
Rest In Peace Aiden&Allison.<3