I have been teased at school that I never "ate a girl out". I am kinda afraid to do so because I'm afraid of the smell, and what it tastes like. Some guys told me it tastes good and others say it's sour but tasty. I need both guys and gals opinions on this matter. She really wants me to do it but I haven't talked to her about it yet. I'm afraid of a bad experience for both me and her. What does it really taste like? Does it depend on the women? For a general info, what does it taste like on the average? She even told me she plans on cleaning it really well taking longggg hot showers and bathes. And even after she urinates she'll clean it. Thanks a bunch!!
Wed, 08/12/2009 - 00:17
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Mouth to her......
Being female, I can't speak to its taste or smell from my own experience. I absolutely love it when T does it for me (I refuse to use that phrase), and he knows how much I love it. However, I almost never actually ask for it. IMHO, it's a very personal thing. He did it for the first time when he was ready to do so, and so will you. Ignore the teasing and don't put pressure on yourself.
I try my best to let it go but sometimes it just lets me down and I don't talk the rest of the day, even to my parents and people at work. I'm just nervous about what will happen and all. They have a saying at school and I don't want to offend anyone when I say this:
"Smells like trout, get the fuck out. Smells like chicken, keep on licking."
I try to ignore it but no use. There are some that try to help but that's about it. I just don't want to be nervous anymore. Well enough of my bitching (sorry if I offend anyone), thanks for the tips and I guess I need to relax more and calm down.
BTW: We (well, I did) found a place for us to do it our first time. Around our town, they are building a power plant and there is a place deep in the woods for us. (I know off Topic)
Look at it this way....whose mouth is it, anyway? What you do with her and when are none of anyone's business but yours and hers.
And don't feel like you're offending anyone. As far as I'm concerned, my refusal to use certain phrases is because in some instances I'm still a little prudish ;)
I know, we were just talking and she told me that she'll only go oral on me if I go oral on her once in a while. I agreed to. I told her after the first taste and stuff, I'll be good. She'll just have to pressure my head down there.
Read up the various techniques available in threads on the site - see the index.
Please - grow a set - teasing is just more of the usual BS harassment handed out. Just ask them "What business is it of yours?" because if they're so interested in YOUR sex life - they can't be having much of one of their own.
> I never "ate a girl out". I am kinda afraid to do so because I'm afraid of the smell, and what it tastes like.
Your apprehension is understandable, yet your logic is not. Now, you just have to understand that with as large a population as there is in the world, more than quite a few are doing this with each other. With so many, the taste or the act cannot be all bad.
I believe you are making much to do about nothing. Vaginal mucus is an acquired taste. As the saying goes: "Try it, you'll like it", and, if you don't, you do not have to taste it. It is this simple. On the other hand, with so many couples tasting each other, and enjoying it, why wouldn't you want to participate, also, and, without all the consternation? Where is your sense of adventure?
I am surprised you are not equally worried about how your taste will be perceived by others.
Lastly, keep your love life to yourself. What you, do not do, have or have not done is nobody elses business. This is especially true when a partner is involved.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
Most women taste and smell good, but they're all different. I have seldom been with a woman who was actually bad tasting or smelling, but again, that depends a lot on personal habits, time of month, foods eaten and other factors. The first time I did it, it was like some sort of aphrodisiac perfume, the smell and taste drove me insane with passion, I did not want to ever wash it off my face! Fishy is actually a common taste/smell, somewhat salty and sour, pungent but very nice. I have been with a girl who had almost no taste or odor whatsoever, and one who tasted sweet and fruity! Fishy, fruity, sweet, sour, salty, it's all yummy to me now, and if I'm having any difficulty getting hard, eating pu$$y always does the trick! Eat up and enjoy her...
Michael
evilevikitten, why are you so dam harsh to people, we come here to get and offer help, not abuse, and man, i know how you feel, peer pressure is annoying, but you do have to ignore it, just don't tell people what you do, i keep my personal life just that, and i like the taste, it's kinda sweet i think, and just think of it as it's not for you, it's for her enjoyment. think of the emotional side, as women apparently find any mouth to body contact highly sensual as it is a passionate thing, just do what you think is right, when it is right, but don't see it is a chore or a burden, do it because you want to, i know i'd want to if i was offered the chance. it's a treat not a punishment
EEK means well and makes good points. She's just not a word mincer.
i'd rather have no help than be abused, to be honest, yeah i know points are good, but being nice about it would be appreciated, if i want to be abused i'll go start on one of the local youths
it's legal - honey, sweety, babydoll - YOUR ego is YOUR problem, not mine.
Let's calm down people and try to stay on topic. I hate in whatever thread I start or post in, there is flamming involved. Please stop it, act like adults here.
If you're not ready to do it, don't feel pressured to do it. Really. Maybe you're just not at the point yet in this relationship or in your life to be comfortable enough to enjoy it.
When you are ready, I'd suggest the first time start by showering together. Take your time to enjoy washing each others' bodies. Then when you go to lay down together, it may come naturally. (Tip: in the shower, don't try to oversoap her down there, as any soap residue will taste yucky to you and may irritate her nether regions)
The smell/taste/experience isn't anything more yucky than any other part of her body. Think about the first time you kissed a girl. Was that weird or bad tasting? Maybe it seemed scary before you did it, but once you tried it a few times you saw why it was so much fun. Also, it's no more yucky than her experience when she does that for you. It may just be an acquired taste, strange at first but exciting once you begin to develop fun associations with it.
The taste and smell varies person to person, so I can't tell you exactly what it might taste like.
when i first performed oral sex on a female i really didn't like the taste, just because it was so alien to me, but i did it a few times and now i really enjoy it, i think oral is a real treat to perform and strangely i'd much rather please my partner than them please me, so i advise that you do atleast try it, but when you feel comfoartable doing so, and follow the advice of the other members, we all have our stories to tell and out own view points, and talk to evilevilkitten as she really does know what she is talking about
i hope it helps
Thanks for the help guys, and gals. I decided to try it for her on Friday night at her mom's. With it being my first time and all, I didn't much care for it only for the fact that before I got there, she was taking a dump so she didn't wash afterwards, and it stunk. I still tried it though and she was performing it on me at the same time. I told her that maybe in the future as I get more comfortable I will do it more, and she agreed and accepted it so I was happy about that. I was just giving you a heads up and thank you for the help!
no worries man, but unlucky about the whole having a dump thing, i'm sorry but that is funny, i know i shouldnt laugh, but yeah, good one though, well done
Tidiness is required.
Well, it went on a week ago and all I gotta say is I love it! I was thinking about it the whole time at first but then my mind got off of it and it just happened. It didn't taste or smell like I had expected. To be honest, it smelled like kettle sweet popcorn for some odd reason and she can't explain why, but hey, what do I care? It tasted good to. Thanks for helping me out and helping me mentally to!
VERY VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT! Being clean and tidy is key to having good oral sex, besides actually doing it because you enjoy it.
IT comes with practice and experience. Not all woman are created from the same mold. What you taste and what she likes can be completely different from one woman to the next. My best advice to you is listen her body. What I mea by that is pay attention to how she reacts to different ways your are actually performing down there. A slight pressure on her clitoris might send her off the wall or it can be no touching for her. Read up on it a lil and it can guide you in the right direction.... just rememeber attitude is everything... Have fun and be safe!
Never heard it described as kettle popcorn before. That is one sweet girl you have and to think you were concerned about this for so long. Now when I see or smell kettle corn, I'm going to get a big hard on since I will be thinking of going down on my wife's pussy.
its good sometimes and sometimes not so good.lol. But if you love your woman, you learn to work around that.
Since it is a thing of choice, you have right to decide whether to do it or not. But remember no one can tell you the exact taste. try it yourself. There are things we do and no one will know about it, Make it a secret between you and her. EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER! 1LUV.