those were some really nice descriptions...

best experiences were definitely those where there was a connection felt, nothing wrong with quickies and all that, but its a different experience...

Ok, philly, this is just me, but there is nothing like hearing how beautiful you are and feeling like you are the only person in the world at that moment. I had a man tell me once that I was beautiful, not just my face or hair. That he loved my arms, my back, neck, my feet, legs, etc. He said that all of me was beautiful, even in my baggy pj's just getting out of bed. The when the time came, he passionately kissed every part of me that he said he had thought to be beautiful. Took his time. He made it all about me, which in turn made me want it to be all about him. This must have been the most beautiful and passionate experience in my life. I think most women love to be looked into the eyes, touched on the face, neck, arms, (and on down) softly and slowly. It makes you feel that it's very real, not just basic sex. For me, after (and during) all this, anything goes. It takes any feeling of sex being cheap and meaningless away. But again, that's just me.

(I think female would be the most politically correct?)

Time. Time before penetration. That's what my g/f told me. And after I found that out our (her) sexlife improved dramatically. You've got to make her wait, to anticipate it. When she seems ready for you don't get in. Admire her body, tell her how beautiful she is. Run your hands on her skin gradually getting closer to the really sensiteve spots. Before you get there move somewhere else. Use your mouth. Don't let her guide you to the sensitive spots too early (I hope you are stronger than her). Wait until she nearly begs for it.

I've only tried this on one young woman, and they are all different, but it's definitely worth a shot. Trust me.

I'd like to have opinions from women, does this sound like something you would like to experience?