Okay, so my girlfriend and I had sex last night for the first time. It was the first time for both of us, anyways, she woke up today fine, then by the end of school, she was feeling pretty lousy. Now she tells me she has a major headache and threw up a little. So my question is, could this mean she's pregnant? I never heard of a headache with morning sickness though. We did use a condom also, we were safe about it.
Mon, 12/04/2006 - 23:20
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Morning Sickness-questions.
if the condom did not break then you should be fine.. if you are still worried take a pregnancy test in about 15 days or so.
yeah, she is going too take a pregnancy test. The condom didn't break either, so I think we are good, but I did find a planned parent hood in our area just incase she might be, we can take a ride up there.
Any more advice from anybody?
My advice:
If you are going to start having sex, have your GF start taking birth control. She should also be going to the gyno for yearly check-ups and be talking to her doctor about her BC options.
Even if she were pregnant, you wouldn't get morning sickness symptoms immediately. Read up a little online on pregnancy and the stages of it if you want more information. It's good that you are going to go the planned parenthood center.
Keep using the condoms anyway.
Yeah, I wouldn't jump to conclusions at this point. It is very unlikely that after one instance of sex with an unbroken condom, she would be pregnant and already experiencing morning sickness on the first day of pregnancy. I would recommend that she get hormonal birth control, though, in addition to the use of condoms, so that you won't have to worry like this.
When me and my bf only used condoms I would still get really nervous that I was pregnant. Going on the ring made me be able to relax and enjoy sex without constantly wondering about pregnancy. I'm on the ring, which is great because it's as effective as the Pill but you don't have to remember to take it like the Pill. So... have your gf see her doctor or go to a local free health clinic and find out about her birth control options.
It's just not worth it to have sex if you worry more about the consequences than you enjoy the pleasure!
[QUOTE]If you are going to start having sex, have your GF start taking birth control. She should also be going to the gyno for yearly check-ups and be talking to her doctor about her BC options.[/QUOTE]
i know 2 people who have fallen pregnant off bc whilst also using a condom. nothing is impossible.
so make sure you still practice very safe sex