so last night i had sex but we had to stop due to lack of lubrication (which turned out to be my problem before, btw) then in the morning we went at it again and it was good. he kept it short so i wouldn't run out of natural lubricant.
anyway, after we took a shower and then crawled back into bed and fell back asleep. when we woke up and i stood up there was a rush of a lot of fluid out of my vagina.
i had my pants on by then and they got wet as it went through my panties and down my leg. the fluid was clear and odorless, like water.
when i inspected more closely i found some dark redish-purplish stuff in my panties, but just a tiny amount.
these were the second and third times i've had sex, last saturday being the first.
what do you think this fluid could have been?
Sat, 05/10/2008 - 12:18
#1
morning after fluid
If he ejaculated inside of you, then this is what many of us refer to as "after flow." You will find this happen a lot especially if you had sex at night and it happens in the morning. It is just his semen finding its way back out. The reddish spots are probably blood, which, as you had indicated, could definitely imply that you need to use lubrication. You can buy it from any pharmacy or walgreens/walmart, so go get a bottle and use liberally. I prefer Astroglide.
On another note, if you are having unprotected sex, unless you intend to have children together, you need to get on some form of birth control. Go to Planned Parenthood and talk to them about your options. Planned Parenthood only makes you pay according to how much money you have, so please don't be afraid to use them. They are great.
i'm on the pill and he pulled out...
Pre cum etc comes out before he ejaculates so even if he did pull out in time there could still be some fluid to come out.
enough to soak my panties and run down my leg and get my pants all wet?...
...
I dont think it was ejaculate. I mean generally (or from what I have heard) the cum will gush out after intercourse, and the fact that he pulled out and you took a shower would feinitely make it all go bye bye.
alittletoomuchvodka alittletoomuchvodka is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 17
Rep Power: 0
alittletoomuchvodka is on a distinguished road
nuttychick.. i didn't plan this and am pretty damn ashamed of myself. i'm trying to fix what i've done and be responsible, and if there's a way to fix it without hurting my family i'd like to go that direction. this is not something i plan on repeating.
..............................................................................................................................................................
Still no CONDOMS...... when are you ever gonna grow up and learn?
I can't imagine what it was.... did you have sex in the shower? maybe some water got pushed up in there.
Like Ducy said... it wouldn't be ejaculate b/c it was after the fact when you woke up... unless you were having a MAJOR wet dream or something.
This is called "Idiot Juice" and it's completely normal for some to leak out after you do something incredibly stupid. You simply had more Idiot Juice than your body could contain and it had to expel some so you wouldn't explode...
Seriously, you're just asking to get herpes and AIDS and all sorts of other fun diseases. Unprotected sex with random people is a big no-no. Pregnancies can be aborted - most STDs will stay with you for life. Buy some damn condoms...
[QUOTE=oedipussy;215242]This is called "Idiot Juice" and it's completely normal for some to leak out after you do something incredibly stupid. You simply had more Idiot Juice than your body could contain and it had to expel some so you wouldn't explode...
Seriously, you're just asking to get herpes and AIDS and all sorts of other fun diseases. Unprotected sex with random people is a big no-no. Pregnancies can be aborted - most STDs will stay with you for life. Buy some damn condoms...[/QUOTE]
:p;)AHHHH Oedi you Take the words I am thinking and post them...
you are my hero lol
Idiot juice ehhehehehehehehheheh
Even if he did pull out at the end, there is still a pretty good chance that he ejaculated inside of you. While this sounds odd, I have witnessed many men ejaculate without realizing it - or he did realize it and didn't tell you. Also, if he pulled out right at the end, he may have ejaculated partially inside of you. You really do not need a lot of semen inside of your body to experience that "after flow." After all, the typical ejaculate amounts to like, what maybe a teaspoon or two of semen?
See these links to find out what some others are saying about such things:
One and Two
If you had an experience where there was enough fluid that it could equal the amount of urinating on yourself, I do not know what that could have been. I have had after flow soak my panties and maybe make a little dot inside of my pants, and definitely have had it run down my leg, but if your pants were quite wet, as if you had sat in a bowl of water, I would go to your gyno and talk to her.
Dear too much Vodka;
I suggest you learn about your body before you engage in any more sexual practices. Get a book about A & P and sex. Did you sleep through health class????
wow guys. thanks for the helpful info...? i don't really know what to say. i've been around this site a few times and it's generally very nice and helpful... but whatever.
it isn't a bunch of random guys. it's the same guy. he's been checked, i've been checked, we've all been checked, we're clean, and i'm on birth control.
sera - so sorry i can't remember everything from sophomore health and the BS they "taught" me there. besides, no one else here seems to know what it is either..
[quote=alittletoomuchvodka;215300]wow guys. thanks for the helpful info...? i don't really know what to say. i've been around this site a few times and it's generally very nice and helpful... but whatever.
it isn't a bunch of random guys. it's the same guy. he's been checked, i've been checked, we've all been checked, we're clean, and i'm on birth control.
sera - so sorry i can't remember everything from sophomore health and the BS they "taught" me there. besides, no one else here seems to know what it is either..[/quote] Read around the site; if you do not know get a book and learn. This is you body and hate to see you risk it all. As you stated last week, you had too much to drink and had a random hookup. How do you know he is safe? Did you go for STD testing together and use condoms and spermicide or BCP's? Or do you take him on his word?
Look around planned parenthood.org. Much is explained there & without doing a proper gyn exam on you how can I guess? That would be [over the Internet] a malpractice case for me!:) I am not willing to risk my license to guess. See a doc!:) Also read Brandy's posts on the beginning of the site under women's health & new to sex!
You are on "proper BC" but what and what is he using???? It's your body and can have significant ramifications to you in the long run. People are look out for you here...trying to give you a wake you call--you play & you can pay. You don't need that!;)
You cant really get helpful advice of such little info as I woke up and there was a gush of fluid. too many unknown and possiblities.
Someone you've only known for a week = Random Guy.
17-Year-Old Girl + Random Guy = No Sex Without A Condom
If you were in your 20's and this was a close, trustworthy friend I'd say you could have at it without a condom, but this isn't the case. Time to be responsible for yourself and your body. Just because this guy didn't have an STD last week doesn't mean he hasn't picked any up since then...
wow, you said you felt terrible about your stupid decision last week. birth control is NOT 100 percent, it is more effective if you use it correctly implying a condom and being responsible with your actions. if your so worried about getting pregnant or catching an STD then use a condom, it doesnt matter if he pulled out. i was on the pill and my bf pulled out and it only took once and i got pregnant because WE DIDNT USE A CONDOM be responsible i learned my lesson and now im 18 with a 8 month old little girl, i hope you dont have to learn the same way. seriously take these peoples advice, i know you think your being safe and you think it would never happen to you but the moment that pops into your little head thats when it DOES happen. planned parenthood will give you a whole pack for free, take this into consideration and save yourself the heartache.