So here's the deal. My boyfriend and I are very alike, in that we're modest and down to earth, and don't like to make fools of ourselves. This said, our sex life is pretty boring, because neither of us want to feel stupid.

On Valentines day, I told him to come straight to his room when he got home from work. I waited downstairs, in lingerie, for 45 minutes. He texted me and thanked me for the gift I'd left him upstairs, not knowing I was downstairs, somehow not seeing my car in HIS driveway. My reply, of course, was simply GET DOWN HERE RETARD. I was fairly embarrassed when he finally came downstairs. However, he really responded. We had really great sex, He even asked me to wear the lingerie more often. However, I have yet to do so.

Anyway, what I want to ask is how I should bring up oral sex with him? I go down on him pretty frequently, like if I'm on my period, or often for no reason. I really enjoy it because he really enjoys it. But he has never gone down on me. He's never brought it up, or asked me if I'd like him to. We've been together about a year, he's a kind of a reserved person. Not stuffy, certainly, but not one for drama or anything over-the-top. Maybe because I'm his first sexual partner?
I'm not so sure I'm comfortable with just gently nudging his head downward. Should I ask him about it? If so, should I simply say, "Baby would you please go down on me?" or, "Baby why don't you ever go down on me?" And when should I say this? After sex? Before? Or at a time when neither of us are thinking about sex? And when/if he does, should I fake an orgasm if I don't reach one so that he isn't discouraged from doing it again?

Needless to say I'm fairly stressed out about this. Sorry about the length, I appreciate any feedback! Thank you!:o